Well i have known this girl for 3 years now... once we met we hit it off became real close... last year we had a bad argument people told me she was talking bad about me and people told her i was talking bad about her when i wasn’t doing anything... this year we talked and we decided to put things behind and we were okay up until recently she emailed with no explanation asking not to talk about her no to mention her name to anyone or of her bf... hmm?? She made it seem as if my life consisted of me mentioning or talking about her... and that’s not even the case... i don’t talk about her ...her name never comes up in my conversations with other people... i emailed her back saying... "Im sorry i am not going to comment on this...im done" basically im cutting her out of my life for this...am i over exaggerating... because to be honest i don’t need that crap in my life.
2007-03-28 07:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by ever_lady84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes we say things we don't mean when we are angry or hurt. If you truly want this girl in your life you're going to have to apologize for that email. I would explain to her that you wrote that email because you were hurt that she would think that you are talking about her. (She should apologize for her email, too! If you two were really friends, she should have asked you about it, not accused you of it.)
This topic seems to be a recurring theme in your friendship. Perhaps the two of you have a mutual friend who is jealous of your relationship and is spreading crap. If you think that is the case, I would ask your friend to talk to whoever told her you are talking about her and set up a meeting between the three of you and get it straightened out.
I think you should figure out why the two of you are friends in the first place. Seems like your relationship is full of drama.
2007-03-28 08:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heavy Sigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sort of sound like you overreacted, honestly. You could have just tried to clear up the misunderstanding once and for all instead of saying goodbye forever. Life is too short to cut people off every time there is a problem. If you want to be close again, do something about it!
2007-03-28 08:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody should be made to put up with drama in their lives -- we have to deal with enough of it on a daily basis anyways!
You did the right thing by letting go of her. Clearly, if she is going to cause you that much hassle, she is not a true friend, and definitely not worth your time!
2007-03-28 09:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you didn't do anything wrong. you're right, your world doesn't revolve around her life and she must real conceited to email you something like that. if she ever does ask for your forgiveness however, be civil. don't be dramatic.
2007-03-28 07:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by yeah.whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont think u did wrong has getting rid of her has a friend. too much drama about who said what. i'd reconsider ur group friends if their tellin u things about her and their tellin things to her about u. if she was true friend she wouldnt believe what their sayin and go to u first.
2007-03-28 07:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by meganthorne81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and forget this ever happened, you don't need people talking bad about you
2007-03-28 07:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by bperez2002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RIGHT ON!!
2007-03-28 08:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋