i cant believe he would do this to me,the mother of his children?

Question

im almost 6 months pregnant with my mans 3rd baby. I caught him on adultfriendfinder looking for erotic talk/discreet relationship..he said it wasnt him etc. then i found him on myspace,tells me he doesnt use it,its to look for singers *hes a music producer*...then i look in his phone and found tons of text messages to this chick and him asking her if she wants a date,hes coming over..she even said to him..ok have a wonderful hump day..wtf hes telling me we will talk later,its not what i think..and i feel like i am going to have this baby early...wtf do i do????please help someone..im on bedrest and hes all i got right now..my family dont live here..please!!!!!

Answer 1

Sorry but you don't even have him. Your fooling yourself. And its going to get harder and harder to do. Its the price you pay for not loving yourself and being distrated by the pretty lights. I mean come on he's a music producer and you acully thought he would just comment to you? Then you even thought that just because you have his kiddos that he's going to comment to you? Sorry but he's going to have his cake and eat it too as long as you continue to put him before yourself and those kiddos. But if you just can't see it for what it is your forced to find away to make this person acully be emotional connected to you not by his words but his actions.... good luck... its most likly way to late to use the fact that this guy should love you, to get him to show it... understand one thing anyone can say there a "man" but if you don't stand for anything your just an overgrown "boy" and from what you say you've got another kid there... sorry. You gave him to much