2007-03-28 07:37:44 · 17 answers · asked by DJ...... 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nope. The only thing that makes you gay is if you're attracted to the same sex. If you are only attracted to women, regardless of what they used to be, then you're nothing but straight.
Now, if you get a little excited by the idea that she used to be a man, maybe a case could be made, but still . . . if you don't want to sleep with men, you're straight.
Hope that helps.
2007-03-28 07:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don’t think so. All the parts are female. Speaking for myself (a gay 25yo male) I wouldn’t be attracted to a woman even if she was once a guy.
There are a lot of grey areas with sexuality. Not every one is str8 or gay some are Bi, and some (I know of one guy personally) will only date transsexuals M/F. (for some reason regular women don’t do it for him) If your happy then go with it don’t let labels get in your way.
2007-03-28 14:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hermit IX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! When guys kiss me and whatnot they are kissing a girl. If i have oestrogen flowing through my body, if i have breasts that are real, and if i look, talk and act and live and moan like a woman then arent i a woman? I left my past right where it belongs, in the past, and i do not wish to even think about my childhood. It was someone else's life. Im 20 years old, and i intend to live a normal woman's life and get married to a man (and have sex with them too i guess), get two kids and have a big house.
Men have what you have, women dont. If she hasnt got what you have, then she is not a man, right? And what do you think of her as? Do you see her as a girl or boy? If you think of her as a boy, then you are not doing either of you any favours, and only the pair of you will get hurt.
2007-03-28 16:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It makes you whatever you chose to define yourself as. If you were attracted to her because of her current female qualities, that just makes you an open-minded heterosexual. If you were attracted to her because she once was male, that's a little more complicated. But the labels of gay, straight, bi, etc are really too confining for many people. You are who you are, and you don't have to have a word for it.
2007-03-28 14:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by AClaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is a transgender MTF who has had a vaginoplasty, then the person in question is biologically and mentally a girl. I reckon if I guy sleeps with her, that's heterosexual sex by any definition.
2007-03-28 16:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person you slept with was a woman. what was in the past is just that, in the past. It's here and now that counts., In answer to your question. You are not gay.
2007-03-28 14:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she thinks of herself as female and is more so than male. In fact, I hazard to guess that she thinks of herself as a straight female.
2007-03-28 15:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Greg C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Haven't you provided yourself with your own answer?
You said she was a "girl" and used the "her" pronoun.
You are male, correct? If you answer "yes", then it seems you must straight.
2007-03-28 18:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by Juanita, The Advice Goddess ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that being gay means you are sexually attracted to men. If you aren't sexually attracted to men, then you don't need to worry about it.
2007-03-28 14:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Josh Bastard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. She is a woman now. So you are not even close to gay.
2007-03-28 14:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋