Is it any other way to determine is you are fertile or not other than charting and OPK. Please help I have been TTC since I miscarried in May and have not had any luck I am about to just say forget it. I just started my period yesterday first one since Jan 30. My bleeding is normal. Last week on Wed I so some very light blood as I wiped and then again on Sun. Please help what could it be.
2007-03-28 07:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by spold_qt 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Hi, I would say give up trying so hard. The harder you try the longer it will take. I all but gave up after 4 years before i found out i was expecting my little girl. I was sure i would never be a mother and hold my baby in my arms. So i persued other things and then found out i was pregnant meaning i would need to leave my career filled life to be a mother. I was like WOW and i was so happy as i was sure the miricle of my very own baby would never be mine. Now i have a healthy 3year old and in december we decided in a couple years time we would like to have another baby and as it took so long to get my daughter we decided to come off the pill so that when the time was right it wouldnt take so long of tryin. Only within weeks i was pregnant and it wasnt planned, it wasnt tried for so it proves my theory, the harder you try the longer it will take, when your not trying it is so much more likely to happen, now im 16weeks along and now got over the shock of getting pregnant so soon and enjoying looking forward to the birth of my second child........ the best thing you can do is relax and stop worrying about it, nature works to no clock and it will happen if it is meant to be...... good luck
2007-03-28 07:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been to the Dr? that should be your first step. Second, what caused your M/C in may and did that end in a d/c?
You said you have not had a Period since the end of Jan making this almost the end of march so that is Not a Normal cycle in any means. Your Phases are lasting much longer than they should. You need to chart your cycles so you have records to show your Gyno. There are also some great books out there that you can read so you can get a clear understanding of your fertility.
2007-03-28 14:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Marmar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi-would you believe my OPK wasn't accurate? I was getting negatives but saw a little EWCM and tried and got pregnant! So, now I am a proponent of clomid...I was on 100 mg for 3 months and Ion the 3rd month got pregnant. This was after an October miscarriage and several months of no luck. Looking back, at the time, I thought it'd NEVER happen but now I see that I was just impatient and pessimistic. Charting totally depressed me as did dishing out the money on OPKs. Once I gave all that up, it happened! Good luck-and see your doctor about clomid. The side effects were virtually nonexistent.
2007-03-28 14:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your vaginal discharge to determine when you are ovulating. You are most fertile when your discharge is clear and stretchy, the consistency of egg whites. As for the very light blood, it could be a number of things but you should ask your OB.
2007-03-28 14:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to relax. I know it is very hard to do, but as soon as you do, you will conceive.
Before going through a bunch or expenxive and invasive infertility testing..........try an ovulation predictor.........
Make sure you are eating healthy, and just a note.....if you consume more than 4 alcoholic bevarages per week, you cut your alreasy slim chance (20%) in half!
Good luck!
2007-03-28 14:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they sell ovulation predicting tests. they are like a pregnancy test it is checking for an LH surge.
2007-03-28 14:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋