What is it with my astrological situation??? i need help.?

Question

You see, i dont know whether to doubt astrology even a bit. i am a capricorn and i know that my "compatible" signs for relationships are Taurus, Virgo and Scorpio. But i always somehow attract people from my "imcompatible" signs, in particular Aries, Aquarius, Sagittarius, Leo, Libra and others. the only thing that scares me is that if i get together with someone with an incompatible sign is that there is a greater chance that the relationship will not be peaceful or harmonious. im not looking for my relationship to be perfect but i dont want to have more bad experiences. most people i meet dont have my compatible signs (virgo, taurus, scorpio). i dont know what im going to do. i think astrology is accurate by experience.i really dont have good relationships with incompatible signs. what should i do??? why am i not finding people of my compatible signs?? i am a mess!!!

"Stephen"- dont waste my time with moronic answers please.

Answer 1

Many people only look at their Sun sign, as it is more obvious and most people know when we are in the sign of Aries (now) etc. Relationships are also influenced by other planet and which sign they are in. For example, Venus is responsible for being in love while Mars is the physical side of a love relationship (sex). So if you meet somebody whose Mars and Venus are in a zodiac sign that is compatible with your Mars and Venus sign you can still be very compatible. Also, a Moon sign (which is your inner personality) could match somebody's Sun sign perfectly. So being Capricorn you might meet a Libra (which is a weak sign, anyway) but your Libra partner's Moon sign may be in Virgo or your Libra partner's Venus or Mars (or both) may be in an Earth or Water sign (e.g. Taurus or Scorpio). You get on well not only with other Earth signs but with Water signs too. You need a complete chart to look at your planetary positions as well as your partner's. If you go on www.astro.com you can put in your details and it will tell you which planet is in which zodiac sign. You can also put your friends and family in there and then you can compare your details to other people's details. Have fun!

Answer 2

Astrology is more than just a Sun Sign. Yes Capricorns are compatible to other Earth signs but when comparing two charts astrolgers take all the other planets and the aspects between the two charts into consideration. You may have a Fire sign rising and that might be why you're attracted to Arians, Sagittarians and Leos.
Start concentrating more on the person than their Sun sign because even an astrologer will describe the strengths and weaknesses of a relationship and tell you that in order for a relationship to work, you have to be willing to work at it!
if you are a typical Capricorn, you will be compatible with practical, reliable people. Someone who is as serious about romance as you are.
Instead of thinking why aren't i finding people of my compatible SIGNS ask why aren't you finding people who are compatible with me?
Astrology can be a helpful way to understand yourself and others. Don't be scared about being with someone with what you think is an 'incompatible' sign. Truly, even incompatible signs can work together harmoniously drawing on each other's strengths and weaknesses. Concentrate on the person and not their sign.
Good luck.

Answer 3

I doo knoww what you meen. There does seem to be an awful lot of those in the other signs. I am a Sagittarian, yet Virgo is strong and Venus is in Capricorn, so you see there is more to a person than the sun sign.
I suffer the Gemini, its got something to do with 'learning' some life leason. I have learned it so let all the Gemini people like dandelion seeds blow away and take root somewhere else.
Forget the signs get on with enjoying the company. Did you know your signs planet ruler is Saturn and that once ruled Aquarius?
Maybe its not the sun sign that is not compatible but the interests of the persons that find you a nice steady person to lean all over.

Answer 4

It depends what else is going on in your chart... if your Venus is in Sagittarius or Aquarius it will draw in something a little diffferent than if it was in Capricorn... as a matter of fact, I suspect with all those "incompatible" air and fire signs, your Venus ISN'T in Capricorn...

Of course, part of your problem is just being a Capricorn... We (I am one too) try too hard to control things and if you are attracting Aries and Leo and Sags, there is NO controlling them...


Try posting your full birth data if you want answers... day, time & place

Answer 5

no, you are not a mess. I'm a Leo and I only seem to be attracted to blond capricorn guys. Weird huh. It feels SO unfair we are incompatible, but it always turns out to be true-ish. I seriously don't go for all that kids and family and stuff. I prefer someone who can match if not raise my intellectual level and I can have a laugh with. Not interested in any of the physical bullshit though. Never mind tho, there's always the option of staying single which is probably best for everyone concerned. Good luck with your search!!

Answer 6

I would consult a professional astrologer who could draw up a birth chart for you. It is not sun signs that matter so much but the planets that were in your chart when you were born. Some incompatible signs become compatible when other planets in their chart match or complement yours. You never know the chart might also reveal an underlying reason for your current difficulties in finding a suitable relationship.

Answer 7

First, check out the link below.

Other than that, if you believe in past and future lives, and spiritual evolution between people/relationships etc., then remind yourself that development is often accelerated and advanced through the hard experiences, the rough and difficult relationships, not the easy, comfortable and predictable.

Answer 8

Dont ask me it's way over my head.

But if your interested in time travel, meet me here yesterday