I had to do that.
It's all about three things, hard work (don't be afraid of working 60-80 hours a week); education (get back into school and train for a new career and life) and saving money (stop spending money on anything that isn't a 'need' ... no 'wants', at all, ever).
It took me ten years to get it all back, but I'm in a far better place today than I was before.
2007-03-28 07:02:38
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answered by John B 7
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It's a lot easier than you think actually. I did it about 3 years ago, and it was the best possible thing that could have happened to me.
Step 1 - Move away from your home state...far away. You live in Cali? Off to Illinois!
Step 2 - Get a new phone number/email address/etc. Tell noone.
Step 3 - Be prepared to feel very alone for a little while. I'd say it was about 6 months until I felt I had firends in my life that I could really trust.
Step 4 - Get a pet. Makes step 3 a little easier.
Voila! A whole new life for you to work with. Make with it what you will, but if you're gonna go through all that mess, make it worth it.
2007-03-28 07:12:44
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answered by Anonymous
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visit local thrift stores for furniture or check out free web sites for freebies. Join a local singles group for support and have faith in yourself. Starting over is never easy so take it as a learning experience and grow from there!
2007-03-28 07:09:00
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answered by xoxodolphin 3
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Dissapear. Make sure you go somewhere where no one can find you. And leave everything your life you family and kids. Whatever you have leave them and go somewhere mabey In a different state or a Different contenit. That is how you start your **** over.
2007-03-28 07:07:30
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answered by Genie 3
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I wish I knew. Hey, can you cc: me on the best answer so I can start over too?
2007-03-28 07:09:39
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answered by redwinegirl 3
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You don't, you have one chance. If you blow it you'll never be able to start "your" life over again.
PS. Finally, level 2 here I come!
2007-03-28 13:24:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Get rid of everything you own, including all cash. Do you need an address where to send it?
2007-03-28 07:03:31
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answered by Anonymous
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One day at a time, one step at a time.
2007-03-28 07:24:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Get divorced.
2007-03-28 07:06:58
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answered by Anonymous
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