that i have been in love with for about 9 months - he left me after we had a short relationship- (but i was the happiest time of me life - i literally fell in love with him the second i met him) and it has been kinda on and off for about 2 months (just friends with benefits) but i am still madly in love with him (the kinda love that out the park over the starts and around the corner type love) and now i'm 3 months pregnant with his baby - he didnt believe me and didnt want to talk to me about it for awhile cause he thought that i was doing it to keep him around and trap him - but now he does (and he has treated me like crap for about 3 months even though i still am here for him (what can i say i'm in love) )and he doesnt want it - i'm getting rid of it sadily - but now he is saying that he wants us to start over and wants me to be the woman he wants (which i will do) i just think he is saying all these nice things so that i will feel better about the abortion. what do you all think?
2007-03-28 06:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by Aldabella 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
First of all how old are you both? He seems immature, and not wanting to face his responsibilities. (Even if he does say that now he wants you...etcetc.) There are other alternatives to abortions THINK HARD and CLEARLY on this! Don't listen to anyone but your instinct and yourself look deeply if this is what you really want. I know that I regret it for the rest of my life for making a similar decision! I know other people will bash me for this but it's the truth. If you need someone to speak to email me personally. I'm here.
2007-03-28 06:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't get rid of it! If you put (sadly) after saying that, I think you don't want to!
First, if this guy was really into you NONE of this would have happened. He's stringing you along for the FWB situation. Unfortunatly, you now require medical and financial benefits which scared the piss out of him.
I think you should part ways with this guy, miss him like crazy for a while and be prepared for the emotional roller coaster of pregnancy. Enlist one friend, one sister and your mother if you can to help you hold on. Once you have that baby, devote all this crazy love you have to that baby! It will change your life and help you to value yourself more because you will be choosing not only for yourself but for that little one.
I'm not one of those crazy anti-abortion fanatics. I'm just the mom of an almost one year old. I chose my boy over his dad, and it was the best decision I have ever made. My life has been an absolute mess ever since then. I live with my parents, I'm broke, I'm exhausted, I'm stressed. But that boy is worth every bit of it, and his dad isn't worth jack.
2007-03-28 14:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by robin0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ABORTION is not the solution. The precious embryo that you are carrying inside should not be put to harm due to some dead-beat-dad who you obviously love more than you love yourself. I can tell you one thing, having a child is the most valuable thing in life you will ever experience and that is a love that you don't have to beg for, you don't have to kill your child for, and you will cherrish forever!!!!! There are many men out there that would love to raise a child and can't, so you need to wake up and see that this man is not as special as he may present his self to you as.
2007-03-28 14:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sha-Na-Na 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thenk if soemone doesnt treat u they way u deserve, then u cent trust them to love u like u deserve...⥠*blush* i wesh i wus a daddy, an thats a big dream i have..it makes me really sad to see that he dusnt feel the same, an i hope u keep the baby, i thenk he cen be a blessing for the tought times u went through â¥please follow ur heart, love joey
2007-03-28 13:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not fall with your eyes open in this trapp.
As soon as you had the abortion he will no longer want to know you,mark my words.
Seen hundreds of girls getting persuaded to do it to stay together.They all ended alone.
sky.
2007-03-28 13:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the zero and get a hero.
I can't believe I just said that.
Don't get an abortion just because he wants you to, you need to find someone to talk to, and quickly.
2007-03-28 13:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in my opinion that you are a weak person and you get into things and don't ride the storm out. You get rid of your problems by killing them or running from them and I got no respect for you. God will get you for this and remember weather you beleive or not. You will look at him and answer for this when it is your time.
2007-03-28 13:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to someone, get help. it is a big decision that you will think about EVERY day for the rest of your life.....
2007-03-28 13:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the guy sounds like a scumbag
2007-03-28 13:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious, I say get help, quickly.
2007-03-28 13:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Veruca Salt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋