a girl who is my good friend(just a friend not a girl friend) she has got her boyfriend, now she has somewhat started giving me less time and importance also , her boyfriend is jealous of me, i dont know what for, he always tries to keep me away from her , what should i do?
2007-03-28 06:50:25 · 19 answers · asked by jj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You cant do much in this case. The girl has to make a decision. If she is not giving you much time/importance - probably she agrees with her boyfriend or wants NOT to make him uncomfortable... If she wants to spend more time with you, she has to make that call.
Do not worry... get busy with something else. Make more friends then you wont have to depend on only one, if thats the case.
2007-03-28 10:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear JJ, It's nothing but because this girl who is your friend, her boy friend doesn't like the fact of your being friend with her. He is jealous of you, because he is in love with your friend(girlfriend), this is friend of yours doesn't want to spoil her relationship with her boyfriend, that's why she is keeping away from you. See you tried your level best to keep up this friendship. But friendship is something that's very mutual. Friend should respect each other. Take it easy. You don't go after her, if she really understand and respect your feeling she will keep up the friendship with you. If doesn't. then there is of no use, because you are wasting your emotions for a person who doesn't know the meaning of friendship. But don't lose hope, let the life take it's own course. Things will work out automatically. Keep smiling. Take care.
2007-04-03 06:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by saloni s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes you anymore then if she doesn't then move on. Do something else for a change. Or maybe she doesn't need to go out with a guy like that. Cause I had a friend that a push don't talk or look at anyone but me kind of guy and he tried to kill her. so GOOD LUCK I'm really sorry :(
2007-04-04 12:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her, atleast in the presence of her bf. She is just a friend as far as u are concerned, and she has met someone special for whom she was waiting for a long time, let she enjoy herself.
2007-03-28 18:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl as just a friend then let her choose the guy over you. Now if you want more from this girl then let her know and fight for her heart
2007-04-04 12:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by drackoseifert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her approach you. Don't approach her. Tell her you know her boyfriend is possessive and you don't want him to think you are coming on to her. Maybe she will realize this is a problem and talk to him about it. Ideally, he would say to you himself, 'Sorry, man, I overreact sometimes; she's your friend, I just wanted to make sure it was simple friendship.' Then perhaps they could include you when they hang out with a group and you wouldn't have to be nervous about being friendly to her.
2007-04-04 10:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly if I was in your shoes man I would probabbly take it one day at a time and ask myself is she worth while that I wish to spend time with and if that is the case just tell her bf that you'd like to spend time with her instead of the little amount of time that you get and if he says something like no well then just tell her that a friend is supposed to be there for one another and you just feel aggitated about the fact that she is preoccupied either with her bf or something else is what I would do
2007-04-04 15:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by olson101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like cos of her boyfren's insecurity u wud have to lose out on your fren. Ask her if she also feels the same as her beau. If she do then take a back seat. If she truly values your dosti she will not let her boy decide who she shud be frens with.
2007-03-28 21:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cool yaar
u should understand him also it is a common human nature
and if she is also not giving you much time than try to leave them for a while and be happy in your own world
why you r worrying dear
she is your friend so b her friend.
don't think too much it will not effect her nor his boyfriend
so gooooooo and enjoy your life
2007-03-28 21:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away if the girl agrees with her boy friend's behaviour.
2007-03-28 06:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋