2007-03-28 06:32:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is the nature of love? If it is sexual in nature it will be incest, as many societies of the world disapprove of such relationship. But if the society in which you live allows such relationship then better for you to get married rather then just fooling around. But if your society also disapprove such relationship then just stop it now itself. Getting sexually attracted to any of your relatives is physiological phenomenon which is quite normal but in a society we have to go with the norms & rules of the society in which we live. Hope you will understand this & do accordingly
2007-03-29 14:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
U are a spark but be careful, it may be easy to make your advances in a relationship with your cousin, but for some reason if you wish to backout, your cousin could bring a lot of family pressure and your family obligations may not allow you an easy exit in this relationship.
2007-03-28 18:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a glance at what approximately your cousin you like. Is it the way she seems? Her character? Her physique of recommendations? Make a catalogue of the attributes you like approximately her, and that's what you're finding for in a woman. look for somebody like that. in case you think of she is 'the only,' think of a few few issues. Is she nicely worth each and all of the subject concerns you will have with your loved ones (each and every thing from disgust and unhappiness to perhaps estrangement)? Is she nicely worth each and all of the subject concerns you're probably to have with any babies you have along with her (particularly if she is your first cousin)? babies born of close kinfolk are extra probably to have start defects, psychological or actual issues, and adjustment issues. Any illnesses that your loved ones has historic previous of (diabetes, heart issues, etc.) are doubly probably in babies you have with a detailed relative. Is she nicely worth each and all of the subject concerns you will likely have with human beings all your life, whilst they locate out you're married on your cousin? all and sundry is prejudiced against close relative marriage, as you observed from a number of the replies. there are distinctive problems with marriages between close kinfolk, yet whilst, after thinking approximately each and all of the subject concerns you're very probably to have and the confusing life you will have because of this, you're nevertheless set on being along with her, pass forward. purely be arranged to hearken to lots out of your extra advantageous officers, and that i'm undecided...yet you would be able to additionally be discharged from the army (undecided approximately this), and be arranged to hearken to lots out of your friends and family contributors...
2016-11-24 19:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by sheneman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do not know your age!!there are time known as infatuation..u r one of those victims of wierd thought..I am close to 60 years..and my suggestion is to intorespect the after effects in a visionary , practical method. We live in a society with strong value of our daily life..There are many other areas of revolution if you can rethink of loving your cousin (if your intention is to get married?) and find some one else to avoid unnecessary problems which may hinder your normal life.A little more maturity and broad thinking will
definetly solve your question. good luck!!!! hey I like your question straight from your heart keep it up...
2007-03-28 18:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by sweet papa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I belong to the Nair community of Kerala, India.
You know something, here it was a general practice of nairs to marry their cousins..ie.a girl can marry her aunt's son..I still have examples in my family of healthy offsprings out of such marriages.
But I don't know about you...in your community I think it may be a taboo..else you wouldn't come up with such a question.
My opinion is that....listen to your heart.If you feel that this affair would be incestous, don't go for it.
Else...BEST WISHES!
2007-03-28 17:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Andromeda 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's a natural thing, especially when your cousin is really good looking. Nice try, but you need to move on and find a girl friend. Cousins are so closely related, if you're married and have children the child will have down syndrome. That's just the way it is. Good enough, yes?
2007-03-28 14:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's a phase, you'll grow out of it. But just to tell you, while marrying a cousin is acceptable to some societies, it isn't to others. It can almost be considered as incest. So my advice to you is this - if you do not wish to cause an embarassment to yourself and your family and the girls family - end it. End it now.
2007-03-28 13:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relation ship with cousin like sexual matters are strictly avoidable. There is some blood relation ship will be there it will give more problems in the future
If u r very serious go for Blood test and find whether blood relation ship is ok or not
2007-03-29 20:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by kumar r 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go for it..
There is no valid Scientific Genetic prohibition against
marrying ones cousin, 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th...None at all..
This has been known for about 10 years...
2007-03-28 08:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to have such feelings... but donot go with the flow. Meet other people and try to find romantic ineterests elsewhere. Meanwhile enjoy your cousin's company as a friend. This phase will pass soon when you will find someone else.
2007-03-28 10:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kiana 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋