Women: Like to get your thoughts on Sensuality?

Question

I believe sex is an expression. It is one way of showing how much we care, we respect, and love the other person. That way, it no longer is about pleasing myself. I am completely focused on making sure the woman is totally pleased and satisfied.

To kiss, to touch, to be sensual and intimate, and to do all the things that would make her feel wanted. To make her feel she's special. To show a sense of respect and dignity. To show what she does to me when I'm with her.

Sensuality is about being playful, communicating, listening, and doing all the little things to prolong the experience. It's not just about "the act". It's the entire "package" making every moment more memorable.

I love being romantic and sensual and intimate as much as I like being totally wild and spontaneous in bed. What's your thoughts on this?

Answer 1

I agree with all you wrote. I think you have an excellent handle on sensuality and sexuality. Sometimes it is great to have a wild romp, be an animal, go crazy and get a little rough. Sometimes it is wonderful to light candles, include massages, take it slow, kiss all over, touch all over, whisper sweet nothings.

Answer 2

I believe that the touch is the most sensual. It is also the words that are being said. A kind word like you look absolutely beautiful tonight can mean a lot to a woman. Now that is romantic in my eyes, or even saying to a woman come look at the snow, it reminds me of you pure and delicate. Now that makes a womans heart.

Answer 3

Sensuality is a very important part of a sexual relationship. If a couple only focuses on sexuality, many times the relationship suffers. This is the reason why: A lot of women feel as though their man only touches them when they want sex. This causes women to feel angry, used, and resentful.

Instead, couples need to engage in non-sexual affection. This includes holding hands, cuddling, stroking each other's hair, spooning, massage, etc. When this doesn't lead to sex, the woman starts to associate the man's touch lovingly again. After awhile, the resentment starts to go away and the sex begins to get better. All of this non-sexual affection, releases the chemical oxytocin in our bodies, especially in women. This is the bonding chemical. It makes us feel loved.

Answer 4

Do you advertise on Yahoo personals -- cause you must be single and trying too hard!? What you describe sounds wonderful. Most women would thank their lucky stars to find a man like you describe. However, I wonder how your partners would describe you? Sometimes, men THINK they are doing all these things, when they really aren't -- at least not if you ask their partner's opinion. In my opinion, in order to do what you describe, you would have to know the woman very, very well. We all don't like the same things. What is sensual to me may not be to another etc.

Answer 5

I so wish more men were like you. It's more like wham, bam, thank you ma'am and by the way was I good?
Women want and need sensuality with a wild spontaneous romp occasionally.
I say you know the secret to making a woman feel sexually complete.

Answer 6

I think there's more to it then that. As much as your focused on pleasing her what about you. Sex is a two way street you both have to feel like your getting something out of it. What about the before sex like maybe a light dinner or a massage something that will get you both in the mood. Or the after sex when your both sweaty. The cuddling, getting something to eat, showering. I think these moments are just as big as the act itself. As much as I love the act itself I remember the after moments more. When we both just laid there tired there's a closeness.

Answer 7

I think your full of hot brown stuff. Did you read that in a book?

This isn't supposed to be the forum to sell yourself.
You want women's thoughts? I say bull, you want them to write about how all men should be like you and ask if your single.

I'm sorry your self esteem is so low that you feel the need to advertise yourself in this fashion. I bet you don't know the first thing about it do ya?

So let me help you out. Clue number one.
Fore play starts outside the bedroom, hours before you get any.

If you don't want a woman to be exhausted by the time she gets to the bedroom then get off your behind and help her do the million and one things she has to do.

We all like men that smell good, look presentable and take care of themselves it's not too much to ask?

Run her a bubble bath, light some candles, poor a glass of wine then put on some Green Day and rock her world!!

Answer 8

Its sounds great, but also it is about the performance after the foreplay. You described all of the areas that a woman focuses on and likes to be pleased - I believe the mental part is as well as sensual, initmate, and communcation and cuddling are all great but the performance the actual act cannot be a deflating.

Answer 9

Thats very true. The act is just a quickie which sometimes we need. However women also need to be looking to what a man likes and not just the showing up with a " fun zone". alot of men like petting,kissing ect.

Answer 10

I am in total agreement with you. Many men don't feel that way. I applaud you for having heart and soul. Any woman would be lucky to find a guy with your thoughts and feelings.