2007-03-28 06:25:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First the guy , if he is doing the correct thing or not. He is married & indulging in sex outside his married life amounting to adultery, a ground on the basis of which his wife can get divorce from him. He is playing with three lives his own, his wife & yours. He knows he wont be able to marry you till he gives divorce to his wife until & unless he is Muslim by religion & can have four wives hence he is using you for satisfying his sexual urge which he may not be getting enough from his wife, if this is so he should better give divorce to his wife first & marry you rather then using you like this. As far as you are concerned what I can make out you are still immature person just blinded by this mans attraction. You require proper counseling that will make you to understand the reality of life & human relationship in the society.
2007-03-29 15:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter whether he is married or not; even married are more experienced; then why to spoil an unmarried. All unwed (Pre/Extra marital) sexual relations are specifically barred & prohibited in Islam in clearly written unambiguous words, prescribing punishments of publicly lashing / death by pelting stones. They are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, births of bastards & illegitimates, put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High divorces % and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world. Thus having sex with spouse alone is always proper.
2007-03-30 08:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put yourself in the place of his wife. Would you want to be cheated on? Christian,married and adultery just do not
seem to belong in the same category. Be a better person and send him packing back to his wife. You are the only one who will get hurt here (you and his wife).
2007-03-28 07:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong to date and/or have sex with ANY married guy, unless the guy is married to YOU. You have to be more responsible than that.
2007-03-28 10:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kiana 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong to have a relationship with any married man whether he is a Christian or follows some other religion.
2007-03-28 06:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is a sin, the bible clearly says it, and calls it adultery. Look for some unmarried, single, young guy, it could be more fun.
2007-03-28 19:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-03-28 21:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mahesh R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely wrong. You too will not be happy if you are in his wife's place.
2007-03-28 08:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by thinbrownline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats the purpose of his marriage then??please spare married guys..
2007-03-28 21:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by deep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so denecia
every one is say that it is wrong
i too agree
yaar i know love is blind but this is not blindness this is a big stupidity
so plz leave him
2007-03-28 22:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋