If so, why did you cheat? Did you later tell your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend that you had sex with someone else? Did it ruin the relationship? Would you do it again?
2007-03-28 06:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh no, i could never do that to my husband he is my whole world!!
2007-03-28 06:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I got married I did - a lot. I suppose I did it because the opportunities were there and my morals were a little... flawed. It ruined every relationship I had been in up to that point and it drove me insane trying to keep secrets and worrying about whether or not I was going to catch anything and pass it on. I have told some ex-girlfriends but most of the time I would just live with it. A secret like that can really make you feel like s**t inside.
I haven't cheated on my wife and I never will. I would not feel very well if she were cheating on me and I respect and love her enough that I wouldn't do that to her. I discovered long ago that the mental B.S. that goes along with cheating outweighs the one night of pleasure.
On the other hand, I would not change a thing. I learned a lot about relationships do's and don'ts. Sometimes I cheated on my girlfriends with a married woman or women who were cheating as well. I learned a lot about their motivation behind it and what made them unhappy in their relationships.
2007-03-28 13:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Will H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.... I know what it feels like to be cheated on. I broke off that relationship 22+ yrs ago, and never looked back. It was over.... period. When I met my wife, I told her about the incident, and kindly stated that I could only be committed to one person, and that if she faultered just one time, that there would be no turning back. We totally truste each other, and have been together for 20 yrs (almost 19 as a married couple).
2007-03-28 13:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by T D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I have never cheated in a relationship I have been cheated on. The excuses ranged from person to person with the following. I was bored with us, I just wanted sex, I thought you didn't love me anymore, it didn't mean anything, I just wanted to try something different, to I never thought you would find out. In the end all relationship were ended by me. Except the current one I'm in. We were married so we decided to continue to try and work it out. It's been 5 months now and all is okay so far.
2007-03-28 13:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way YES in my first marriage I find out he was cheating and at that time I was going to college and in several of my classes there was this boy who was my friend since high school and he was cute too but I wasn't in live with him at that time, so he knew my situation so one day he invited me to eat dinner and sice my husband at that time he was working overnigth I said yes I had a graeat time so we continue to go out but never got into second base just kissing and hugging this happend for a month or so , but when i finally decide to move to second base i was allready at the hotel but I dodn't feel OK I knew I was cheating too so I was honest with this " friend " that I wasn't ready & didn't feel okay that I was going to talk to my hubby that day.. So he said it was okay and I did talk to my husband told him that I knew he was cheeting and that I went out several time with my " friend" he never believed I never was sexually talking with him.. and I didn't care our marriage didn't last long we end up divorcing few months later we only last 11/2 yrs ...... I don't think this ruin our relationship it was allready ruin ....No I wouldn't do it again I'm happily married with a great man I have 3 kids and NO I couldn't do this to him ... As for my "friend" after that we continue to be friends then after a 2 yrs he got married and after that I lost track!!!
2007-03-28 13:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, cheaters have no self respect nor respect for others. I would prefer tell my wife I am interested in other ventures before cheating. My children deserve an honest and good role model.
2007-03-28 13:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hon. I was brought up in a loving, honest home. Lies and deceit were not part of what my parents taught me. It has nothing to do with god, jesus or mohammad, or Zeus, or Thor or Odin. It has to do with what is morally right, and wrong, and personal pride and honorability and trustfulness.. And to cheat, and betray my partner was nothing I ever wanted in my life... maybe old fashioned, but....
Thankyou mom.
2007-03-28 13:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, because my husband was NEVER home and if he was, he was mean, made me feel like crap, and even though I cleaned, worked full time, cooked, mowed, painted, replaced water faucet and plumbing in kitchen, he said I didn't do **** for the family, although HE was the one never around. So yes, I did. I didn't tell him, just told him I wanted a divorce.
2007-03-28 13:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I have never cheated on my husband. And I never would. I LOVE him with all my heart. And he gives me EVERYTHING I need.
2007-03-28 14:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by btyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Variety. No. not applicable. Yes.
2007-03-28 13:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did once a long time ago, I got caught and felt like a total b****, Learned my lesson.
2007-03-28 13:23:32 · answer #11 · answered by bluerabbit19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋