Are they using me?

Question

Okay well, I have these friends but sometimes I think they take me for granted. Like before, my friend messed my hair up jokingly and I done it back jokingly, but then she went crazy and started hitting me. And a couple of days later, my other friend done it to her but she didn't start hitting, her she actually thought it was funny. And also, when my other so-called friend Lauren, hurt her leg, she told everybody that I thought it was funny even though I was trying to help her. Also, this other girl called Bridie is sometimes nice to me but then she's like, "Did you get a wash today?" And "Did you brush your hair today?" But then I plucked up the courage to stick up for myself and I said. "No, otherwise my hair would look like yours" But what I really want to know is, do they actually like me? Please, real answers, thank you.

Katie
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Answer 1

sweetie, if your friends do not treat you well, or if they don't respect you at all, then they're not friends.

there will be times when friends have "fake fights" or would banter with each other, but it's getting too personal or if someone is already getting hurt (either physically or emotionally), then it's high time to stop and tell the other party about it. considering they're supposed to be your friends, then tell them that they're already hurting you. if they don't stop, then they're not worth your time.

surround yourself with people who can help you grow and would see the positive side of you.

Answer 2

I can tell from experience. They aren't your friends. These girls used to do that to my sis.
You need to stick up for yourself. I would be cautious of those girls. Some can be foul.

Answer 3

kick these toxic b*tches out of your life. no way would real friends treat you like that.

Answer 4

no they are not ur friends bc real friends would not be mean like that