Is it wrong to have a guy that dances better than you?! i am a good dancer, but my b/f can dance some spanish music better than i can! and i hate it cuz then we sit out, when i kno he wants to go and dance! just let me kno your opinions...thanks! ;)
2007-03-28 05:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by JB. 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
No it is not, in fact it can actually help you. The guy is supposed to lead so to have a partner that dances better than you is actually a blessing. I wouldn't get jealous or frustrated over it but actually just enjoy it and see what you can learn from him. You should also ask him to teach you the dances that he is better at so that way you two can go dancing to the music that he would rather dance to.
2007-03-28 05:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong at all! I've danced with some guys who are not as good at dancing and it's a pain because you then have to lead, but from the following position. It's tough.
If you feel he's so much better than you that you can't keep up, take a few classes without him. Taking a class is also a good way to dance with a few different partners; dancing with other people is a good thing because you can sometimes pick up new moves, or they might be able to explain a complicated step in a way you understand.
Just because he's better at Latin dancing, maybe you're better than him at another type of dancing. If it's just dancing in general you both enjoy, try finding classes for other kinds of partner or folk dancing. You might find another type of dance you both enjoy doing together, and you might not feel so intimidated since you'll both be beginners!
Lucky you for having a man who can (and likes to) dance!
2007-03-28 13:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by jerseyvioletlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been dancing on degree due to the fact that I was once 2 years ancient, that is 13 years subsequent month. I do not like to bop, I LOVE it past the whole lot else. Dancing for me way.. to be ready to stroll out on degree and turn out to be someone else and are living someone else's lifestyles even only for a second. It's the one means you may real specific feeling. Dancing brings out my favorite part to me. It's a depressing, indignant part with furtive little emotions and an aching ought to think lovely. I observe a constructive difference in my temper after dancing. I on the whole think happier considering by way of dancing I can liberate the entire terrible feeling from me. I had been dancing actually due to the fact that earlier than I can don't forget, and I are not able to think my lifestyles with out it. I am a patient of bipolar sickness, and I placed my dealing with this nearly totally all the way down to dancing. It has affected my capability to precise so splendidly undoubtedly from being totally not able to comprehend happiness to understanding methods to acquire it. Dance enables the brain to be freer and extra open to the unending probabilities all of us pay attention such a lot approximately. I did just like the survey plenty, thank-you. :)
2016-09-05 19:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can it possibly be wrong if your bf is better at something than you are. You don't have to be better at dancing. Don't sit out those dances, don't be silly. You'll get better at it if you dance, but if you keep sitting out he'll get bored. Eventually some other chick might invite him. And he might accept it - it is just dancing, right, and you refuse to dance. So he'd dance with someone else. Imagine how jealous you'd get. So get off your butt now and dance with him. Guys don't mind if the follower is a little less advance, as long as you're willing to try.
2007-03-28 08:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know AMAZING dancers who are guys. Some of them are the BEST dancers i know... its really nice because when partner dancing with them thet can do amazing lifts and you two will blend... wanna know what i say be lucky that you found a straight guy dancer cause they are HOT...and usually gay :( but good for you hope you have fun
2007-03-28 06:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no. theres always someone out there thats better than you at dance. always. learn to accept that and try to bring yourself higher also.
2007-03-29 11:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by **~Dancer 4 Life~** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if your guy better then you.. its only dancing..
2007-03-28 08:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Breaker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I completely agree with ambr95012
2007-03-28 05:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by feanvilo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It dont matta
2007-03-28 09:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Elly 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋