I am 19 years old. 51/2 pregnant. i am not with the baby's father. sometimes he comes around but that is usually only a cover up to get sex. we used to be madly in love. not no more he treats me like crap. and disrespects me. i am still in love him. is there any way i can make it work. or should i give up. it's just i think about him all the time. even though he treats me like crap. i cry all the time. and can barely sleep or eat. i been going threw this for 4monts now. what should i do? somebody please help me.
2007-03-28 04:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Yumyum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hormones, hormones! I hope you do the right thing and think of your baby. Let people treat you bad and your child will learn that behavior. Do the right thing! Love yourself enough to know what love is!
2007-03-28 05:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Crabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, take a deep breath in... now think about it... if he treats you like crap, what makes you think he wont treat the baby the same way. If you dont eat or sleep, it is gonna be a LONG labor! I suggest you start eating enough and getting plenty of sleep. It is gonna be okay. If I were you... I would forget about him... he sounds mean, and I wouldn't take the chances of him abusing your child. It will be okay... enjoy your pregnancy... you will be a mommy soon... don't keep crying... it ruins your look at pregnancy... and pregnancy is a great thing.
2007-03-28 12:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a Hizho, he wants to be single....let him. Trust me it will pass, you feel needy because you are pregnant. Those are red flags telling you to get out right now and leave it alone, you shouldn't avoid them. He is not right for you, if he is just coming over for sex, than it sounds to me like your a pieace of meat to him. And he is only dealing with you because your pregnant with his baby. And he's only giving you sex, because he thinks that will satisfy you and keep you from dealing with other men. And he running around doing what the heck he want, and who the heck he wants. Girl you too young..built your strength up. Do let him take over you like that, trust me you will find someone better. But work on yourself now, worry about you and that baby. Work on yourself...get a degree, car, your own place...work on yourself.
2007-03-28 12:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by SexyBlackFasho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you and i know first hand what you are going through the problem is if he is treating you like that while your pregnant with his child having no respect for the fact that you are carrying his child then you have got to keep it moving, he may be scared or what have you but there is no excuse just leave him be until you deliver and maybe he will have a change of heart after having time to grow up a bit. babys don't change most men but maybe his or her smile will put things back in perspective for the both of you. good luck take care of yourself hopefully you have support from your family to make things easier.
2007-03-28 12:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by yellowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him, get over him, and RAISE THE BABY YOURSELF. The last thing the baby needs is an unstable home. Have you considered adoption? If you aren't wanting to put him/her up for adoption, move in (if you aren't already) with your mom/dad or a really close family member so the baby has some sense of stability.
2007-03-28 12:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waist your time on someone who is not there for you. Love yourself and your baby and some one better will come along for. It will hurt for a while but you sound like a very strong person so I know you can get over him.
2007-03-28 12:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by juli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please forget him and concentrate on the baby you are carrying. It isn't good for you to be upset during this time.That baby should be the most important thing on your mind right now.Your ex-boyfriend will have a responsibility to support the baby after the birth but in the meantime please just keep him away.
2007-03-28 12:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Di LV E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋