if not, then why friends keep on arguing at this?.
2007-03-28 04:52:25 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No it is a virtue.
Stay a virgin until you are married.
2007-03-28 04:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
How can it be shameful? If you care enough about yourself that you want to wait for the right person then good luck to you! But in this day and age when girls are getting pregnant at 11 or 12, there is so much peer pressure to 'do it' that it's unusual to still be a virgin at twenty. At the end of the day it's YOUR choice so ignore the ones who dont agree they probably wish they had waited!
2007-03-31 05:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by steffykins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is noble - not shameful. Anyone who argues over something like this and tries to make you feel bad for having high standards and waiting for the right person, is merely covering up their own insecurities with this very issue, either out of guilt, shame, embarrassment or whatever. If they were really okay with their own viewpoints on the subject, they would not have such a strong need to compel you to do as they do and believe as they believe. Hang in there and stay true to yourself.
2007-03-28 05:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Ignore all the pressure. I think in this day and age and the fact that sex is around us all so much, one who can remain a virgin up to 10 is lucky! Wheter your reasons are a religious one or the fact that you haven't found 'the one' I think it takes a strong minded person to have such priorties. Not shameful at all!
2007-03-28 05:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes because the reason why you should as a teenager is surrounded by other begineers going though the same thing.
Now you only have a couple at work so very little chance of getting started and can only date like 16 year olds having the same begineer level experience and wanting to do all the beginner stuff.
Stop ruining your life and missing out as those your age no longer want to do the early stuff like making out in cars.
And trying to pull in a club is like trying to go for a job with no experience when they want 5 years exp.
2007-03-28 06:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not a shameful thing. Its a great thing. I know someone who is in there late 20's and still is... and i believe that people are just jealous and have their own regrets. Keep waiting... when the time is right, you'll know!!! Good luck!
2007-03-31 13:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Very confused9572 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a shame at all!
a 20 year old virgin? you should be in Guinness Book of World Records...
Do you know how rare that is now? They are just jealous...
2007-03-28 05:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not Being a Virgin is not Shameful at all that just means that you probably really respect women and maybe your not ready for that type of relationship right now in your life if anything you friends should probably applaud you because just because they probably have sex doesnt mean they are good at it soo im very proud of YOU!!!
2007-03-28 05:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Whitney 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I wished I had waited longer. The thing is just to lose your virginity for the sake of it is sad and disappointing and you should feel sorry for those people. Really great sex happens when you are ready for it, right person, time and place and you have no std's to worry about. Let it happen when its right for you so you have something to cherish and not something (not great, disappointing etc) just to brag about.
2007-03-28 08:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not shameful. What is shameful is that people are pressured into having sex before they are ready for it, and then they don't enjoy it so much. Some people aren't ready by the time they're 30.
2007-03-28 05:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is no shame at being a virgin at any age for either men or women.
Young men often think they have to prove their worth as a stud to make them more of a man. Of course it doesnt do any such thing - it just increases their chances of STD.
Girls who lose their virginity too early often regret it later and open themselves to the risk of unwanted pregnancy.
Better to wait and have sex with someone you care about and can explore your mutual sexuality to both your satisfaction that a quick grope and shag just to keep up with your peers.
2007-03-28 05:02:15 · answer #11 · answered by bri 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋