she has left home and i dont think she is comming back as she has taken my best friend the dog with her
2007-03-28 04:29:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i may not be married but i am quite good at seeing things at many different points of view.. perhaps there is something the two of you really wanted to do.. but never got around to doing it.. perhaps doing something exciting and unforgetable( perhaps going back to the place you frist met, or going somewhere you've always wanted to go. ps when i said you i refer to the two of you). Love is something that doesn't die, if you feel she is not coming back.. why is that. if you gave her reason to feel the way she does.. perhaps the best thing to do is prove to her that you love her.. if you best friend is ur dog.. there might be a problem there.. if your wife knows that u see ur dog as a best friend.. a wife should usually take the role as lover, best friend, and wife.. be sure the dog doesn't get more attention..
"love never dwells on the wrongs that the other has commited.. love rejoices in truth.. never doubts, never envy... always percievers. (my favourite reading in times like yours: 1 corinthians chapter 13. NIV)
2007-03-28 04:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay we would need more details to make informed answer, but I would say if you don't tell her how you feel and make an apology then don't expect to see your wife or the dog again except maybe at a court hearing. My concern is that the dog was you best friend, not your wife... You think she is not coming back because she has taken the dog but maybe that is a sign that she wants you to come after her. So, I would say - go to her, tell her you love her and you're sorry if it's your fault, and say you want her back because without her your life is incomplete. Then say, take your time to think it over, and leave. If she comes back make an effort to start working through the problems. IF she doesn't come back, you have your answer and can begin picking up the pieces of your life, buy a new best friend and move on. Sorry, it's been a bad day.
2007-03-28 04:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tabatha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about what led to the disagreement in the first place. Think about how you can come to a compromise THEN think about how you can avoid letting an argument escalate that far in the first place.
Now, assuming you know where she is, call her up, apologise, tell her you love her then ask her to come back home so you can work things out like husband and wife. If she needs some time alone then give it to her but be sure to show her that she doesn't need it in order to get peace and understanding from you.
2007-03-28 04:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by mr_jack_fr0st 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Taking the dog...that's low! =]
If you have an address, send flowers and sign them..."I want you, I need you, I love you and I am so, so sorry!" (No body's perfect, love).
You'll have to go into a little more detail, like, what was the "row" about?? I mean, if you had an affair, forget the flowers...just keep your head way low and let this thing cool down...you are in the dog's doghouse!
2007-03-28 04:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it would help to know what and why the fight occured to know how serious it is.. but however serious or frivolrous seeing that you are missing her so makes it obvious that you still love her so do whatever it takes. No one No one is immune to a genuine apology and the cliche of flowers and cards also should work. Try it and next time do take time out before the fight escalates to a walk out..
2007-03-28 04:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ice mother 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always own your part in this. Often times we all want to be right. In a partnership nobody is right nor wrong. The need to right is very hurtful to others. Stop creating problems and try creating solutions. Problem solving requires input from all sources.
2007-03-28 05:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, she took the dog? Now thats messed up! Tell her she is a cu*t and to bring the dog back, then throw her stuff in the street! You just don't mess with a man's dog!
2007-03-28 04:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Treat her to a cooked meal which she likes, and make it as romantic as you can (soft music, candle lit, etc). When she comes to see you just groval and say that she was right, its the best thing to do (time is a great healer).
All the best mate,
2007-03-28 04:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sabre 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that :( Best thing to do now is let her cool down first. Then try and get her to talk with you. If you two are meant to be together you can work it out. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-28 04:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Offer a reward for the return of the dog
2007-03-28 04:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by gaviscon 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋