Im 19 and my parents think that my bf is a bad boy.Because he smokes and he goes to late night partys with me!!But he's a realy nice guy he's funny and a nice guy but when i try to tell that to my parents that,they dont believe me!!So what can I do to get their attention and finally get them to trust my bf?
2007-03-28 04:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask your b/f to mhelp your parent around the house like wash the dishes, take out trash, drive to get groceries, cook breakfast/lunch/dinner for the family
2007-03-28 04:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by punk_rebel88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents sometimes have a good sense of things. Step back and honestly listen to their reasoning. If you continue to disagree with them try to bring the sides together for some family events (cookout, picnic, etc) so that they can get to know one another.
2007-03-28 04:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats going to be a hard one but you wont convince mom and dad for awhile im sure . when we were 18 i was a low life good for nothing go knowhwere smokin drinkin fool.(according to her father) and he was right for the mostpart. then she got pregnant! he told her i wasnt going to stick around long . this was no kinda world to be raising a young one on your own and thats whats going to happen! well im still here 18 years later! but trust me her father would not ! he thought for sure i would leave ! he hardly uttered a word to me for the first 3 years! it took 2 more to get much more than the time of day and the weather out of him ! so there 3+2=5 years! no joke i hope you dont have to wait that long! and dont run out and get pregnant ! that is no way to start your young lives out. get financially stable first ! then raise a family . good luck with ma and pa!
2007-03-28 04:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when parents don't trust someone, it's for the best. But if you really dig the guy and want to be with him, tell your parents that you care about him and that he cares about you and that he's everything your parents wanted for you.
2007-03-28 04:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow suit. parents have experienced life and have learned lessons that got them to the age they are now. If tht not knowledge then I dont know what is. they have the ability to smell a rat even if you cant. accept that he is prob 99.9% no good. hopefully, you arent the type who have to learn from experience.
2007-03-28 04:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why would you date a guy that is so stupid that he smokes? Your parents don't like him because they know he just want to get in your knickers. They must be so disapointed that you don't have good judgement.
2007-03-28 04:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them what they were like back then. and if they were goodi to shoes then put them in a room for awile like dinner or camping some way thay can get to know eachother
2007-03-28 04:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your parents with their "wisdom" of having been there, done that.........know more than you do....so step back and really take an unbias look.... how do your friends feel about him?
or maybe your parents just haven't spent enough time with him to get to see his good side, suggest having him over for dinner so they can get to know him......
2007-03-28 04:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by darling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they dont know that person youre with.....wat do you expect? just tell ur bf to drop at your hauz more frequent so that there will be tyms for your parents to know that person youre with...............
2007-03-28 04:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you belive that he is agood guy than be shure that your family will accept him and belive that he is good and nice
2007-03-28 04:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by hanoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋