another woman in your bed? would you divorce her? would you consider that as cheating?
2007-03-28 04:21:25 · 32 answers · asked by jbe2176 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would watch for a while then join in. Or ask them if I could get the camara. Did you get caught?????Or do you want to get caught????Let me know
2007-03-28 04:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is still considered cheating, as much of a turn on as it would be for most men, the fact is it's still another person satisfying her at the moment that isn't you, and obviously that other woman has something you can't give her. I don't know if it would lead to divorce, but it would be a serious problem.
2007-03-28 04:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a very angry look on my face. I would close the bedroom door and start unbuckling my pants and then I would lay down the law and say.
Ladies, theres only two ways out of this... 1. you're sleeping with my wife in my house...you owe me.
2. to my wife... you just cheated and I'm sure you don't want a divorce, so you both need to make it up to me right here and right now.
And then I'd screw them both in numerous positions for hours and afetr I'm done I'd tell the other woman to leave and never step foot in my house again and I'd tell my wife to never do this again and that would be the end of it. What's for dinner honey?
Judging from the responses of the men to this question, no wonder why this country can't seem to win a war anymore.
2007-03-28 04:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it would be cheating, she would be sharing something that I consider very personal, private and intimate with someone else. Would I divorce her? Almost certainly, because the trust would be gone and she would always know that she got away with it once, why not risk it again. I could not live like that and regardless of how much I love her, I just do not think I could ever get past that and fully trust her again.
2007-03-28 04:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take off my clothes and mount my wife's female lover.
I would enjoy the time and assure them that I am ok with this and that my need not be ashamed. I would ask my wife's female lover to come by at least twice a week and that we can be one big happy family.
You see, this way, I get to keep my wife. My wife would probably stick around because she could enjoy the best of both worlds without fear or shame.
2007-03-28 04:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find my video camera and record it so I could use it in my divorce!! And YES that is considered cheating. Best of Luck!!
2007-03-28 04:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Smilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump in the middle and enjoy it before the party's over . It would be allot better then coming home finding her in bed with a man at least i know shes not going to get pregnant
2007-03-28 04:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the divorce thing but I would consider it cheating and would be upset.......and turned on LOL.
2007-03-28 04:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with anyone else, without me knowing, is cheating. Divorce would come shortly after.
2007-03-28 04:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating, but I also do not think divorce is appropriate unless there has been physical or severe emotional abuse. Please don't write me off as a "religious freak", but hear me out on this one: If you were married in a church, or otherwise are a christian or jew, you were married before God. In other words, it was a covenant not only between yourself and your spouse, but a covenant with God. You did not vow to love and honor her except if she cheats on you. You vowed to love and honor her. Period. We should not be so quick to seek divorce. Which one of us has not failed our spouses in other ways? Were our "sins" or faults that much less damaging to the marriage than hers? I also hate adultery. But why do we vilify the adulterous behavior so much more than other behavior and actions that damage our relationships? If we ourselves hurt our spouses in this way, wouldn't we want our spouse to forgive us? Then why should we withhold forgiveness from them? Forgiveness does not mean that we condone the behavior, nor that we will forget the behavior. We should seek confession, repentance, and forgiveness (both from ourselves and our loved ones). This is the essence of marriage, not "devotion and committment as long as you don't do something to hurt me".
2007-03-28 04:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by denise s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is cheating .
i would give her a chance to change and seek counseling and ask for forgiveness but if none are meet it would be a divorce .A lot of trust would be gone and a lot more !
2007-03-28 04:48:13 · answer #11 · answered by Duck / Deer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋