how can i tell my gf that i want to *** her cause i am of the shy kind but i have a very big desire to do that , and i am virgin and didnt do that before ,,, will that affect our first meeting ???
another thing , i dont like normal sex ,, will i tell her that???
tell me please and especially girls
2007-03-28 03:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by shonkon22 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No you should not go and ask her right away, you can do some kissing caressing first...when she allows you for sex then it is all right...dont think for abnormal one..(I take you mean anal?)
2007-03-28 03:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin how do you know that you don't like normal sex. I think you are coming off very creepy. Try and put your hormones in check. Stay away from pornographic materials for a while (they are not like real sex). You should respect your girlfriend and when the time is right it will be a mutual decision for you both. You should want to make love as well. Not tear her up.
2007-03-28 11:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless she's young or naive she should already know that. it's kinda assumed by girls that guys want to do that to them. if you're a lesbian the same rule applies to you too. in either case she's probably waiting for you to make the move, being the man that's your responsibility. unless she's asking you to wait specifically, then either respect her wishes or find someone else whose desires are more congruent with your own. also if you're a dude and obsessed with anal sex and a virgin and have problems initiating things with girls than you are gay, try thinking about that.
2007-03-28 11:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your first meeting you should tell her about yourself,what kind of a guy you are. If she doesn't like you because you don't want to do sex with he,r than things might not work out between the two of you- she might not be your type of girl.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 11:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Funny Bunny! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm I would just start kissing her and if she seems okay start touching her and if that is okay move to her breasts and if that is okay try and "make love to her" nicely. You don't tell her that you don't like normal sex until after you do it nicely for her first. And if your a virgin then you don't know you don't like "normal" sex. I bet you will like it. Just make sure she is okay with everything that you do. NO MEANS NO.
2007-03-28 10:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If by ***** you mean 'rape', I strongly advice you to get yourself some professional help. If you're talking about 'dirty' sex, try talking with your girlfriend. Trust is of the utmost importance when it comes to just about everything in a relationship. Abuse that, you can say goodbye to your partner.
And if you're planning on ******** her on your 'first date', perhaps there's nothing anyone can say here that will help you.
Sideline, why would any of us 'girls' tell you how to tell one of us to 'rape' us? I don't think anyone here is that stupid.
2007-03-28 11:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Zarathustra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows. Experience speaks volumes and you can lead a whore to culture but you can't make her think. She's just passing time with you until the real thing comes along.
2007-03-28 11:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first meeting with her, don't ask her straight away, because it will scare her off, wait till you've known her for a couple of months, because your confidence will have got better because you will know her a bit more.
2007-03-28 11:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ben N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(*Girly voice) That is very mean. You should treat her with respect. And what do you mean by, "I don't like normal sex"? Are you a man or women????? Too many questions that are unknown from you.
2007-03-28 10:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she waants to do the dirty with you then go for it but rember No Means NO!
2007-03-28 11:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by spotedsky1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋