I am getting out the miltary with a OTH. We need to get on our feet I am married with a stepdaughter only thing I can afford right now is a house that needs roomates our lease ends on April 13, 2007 I am 28 and my wife is 42 my stepdaughter is 12 and currently in middle school. we have two pitbulls is this a good Idea? she be trippin all the time need to make good points when we arruge about this idea :)
2007-03-28 03:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by jessehowell2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
very,very,very bad idea....you need to be careful who you have around your 12 yr. old daughter!!!!
2007-03-28 03:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think being married an having roomates is a bad idea. I understand it is a necessity right now, but make it as short a time as possible. Married couples need privacy, time to talk and to spend time as a family without any outside influences. Roomates can get involved in your arguements,etc and then take sides which is never good. If it's the only way you can make it for a while put a time limit on it and stick to it. You will also need to have some house rules. Be careful. try to get someone in there that you can trust and count on. Good luck.
2007-03-28 10:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hey if she and your daughter are party people then great .
Ha ha what are you thinking that woman is 42 and your daughter is 12 . Why cant you fined a small apartment something cheaper for them . Maybe you can turn the pit bulls on the roommates and make them stay in there bedroom that's always lots of fun
Military or not you need to grow up real fast or fined a woman your age that would party with you and the roommates .
2007-03-28 11:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and have roommates, but and this is a really big but, we dont have any children and we work full time and I go to school too. This means that if you are hardly ever home and your roommate is hardly ever home it usually works, but with a child in the middle you have a lot more things to think about. Might be better if you get a family member to room with you guys who undestands the situation.
2007-03-28 10:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea at. You need to ask the military to assist you in finding housing once you leave.
There must be G.I loan programs that you can take advantage of to find housing for your family
2007-03-28 10:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to find some way of living without roomates. oh you can't win when you argue with your wife, women always win.
2007-03-28 12:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea ....
2007-03-28 11:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it NEVER works
2007-03-28 10:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋