Sexual problem or is it Mental?

Question

Me and my fiance have been together for over a year now and there seems to be a problem. I used to have some anxiety issues when I was younger and dont know if that related. I seem to get erections fairly easy even when we just make out and things of that nature. DOnt know if I am worried about it or what but when we have sex I usually ejaculate within the first minute but I can go again directly after that and go for hours. Just curious if this is a physical or mental thing that a doctor could help me with or if anyone has any suggestions? What kind of doctor do you goto for something like this? We have been having sex for about a year now so its not like its new to me and of course when I am drunk its a different story lol. I still always get her off so its not a huge issue to ehr just something I am curious about.

Answer 1

I have been married of 15 years.
I am the same way.
My wife will get me off and then I will last until she begs NO MORE!

Answer 2

I believe it's a subconscious mental type thing because me and my boyfriend deal with the same thing. He only had one girlfriend before me and was 21 when he lost his virginity and said he was always so nervous about it that would only last a minute or two, and it's still roughly the same. I think it is due to him being nervous in the past and always worrying about his performance.

Answer 3

Consult with your doctor. There are medications that will slow you down a bit. Zoloft or Paxil will work; it takes about 3 wks or so to see a difference.

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Answer 4

I think you are to tense and you are nervouse that why you are ejaculate but nothing to be woryied about it is a bit strange that you are ejaculateing that eary but just relax and enjoy it and then maby you won't ejaculate so early