You are in a relationship and your partner is doing something that bugs you. He or she is doing it repeatedly, and it's upsetting, perhaps making you feel unloved.
2007-03-28 03:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by Paul B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd talk to him and let him know how I feel
2007-03-28 03:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as you two are open to conversation, it always helps to clear the air through an honest chat about such things. Chances are, if he doesn't know what's ticking you off, he could be doing it out of ignorance of the fact. Politely tell him that what he's doing hurts you and makes you feel 'unloved'. If he still does not pay attention to it, he's being callous, and that needs to be dealt with a little more firmly.
2007-03-28 10:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you are going through. It's one of those things you need to talk to you partner about. My partner and I have had many a talk about things that bothered us about eachother. The only way to grow as a couple is to talk to oneanother. You should feel comfortable enough to talk to them. If they truely care about you then they should stop doing what they are doing to bother you. Ask them when you guys talk and find out if there is anything that bother them about you. That way they don't feel so one sided and you are picking on them. Well good luck buddy!
2007-03-28 10:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak to your partner, and not a bunch of strangers.
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2007-03-28 10:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Plum 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Funny you should ask that. I usually just blow it off, because I know he loves me very much.
2007-03-28 10:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tikhacoffee/MisterMoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them.
2007-03-28 10:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, nope, can't say that she does actually.
2007-03-28 10:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ahh, talk to them?
2007-03-28 10:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by BANANA 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋