hi new to this got a problem better-half said he has not got e-mail address find out he did.Then find out he e-mails some girl and comes to bed very late.Try to check his history folder its alway delted is there any another way that i can check what he is up too please.
2007-03-28 02:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by terri c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no the only way i can think off is sneak to where the computer is and suprise him or you could put a camcorder in the room to see whats going on
2007-03-28 02:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of Right to Privacy?? There must be a reason he told you he has no e-mail address.. Have you done this in the past???
I'm sure it's hard to assume something like this, but if he hasn't told you about his e-mail address, then you must not have a great relationship.... Either it's him being a dog, or you being overly jealous and making assumptions.. Either way it's not good.
2007-03-28 02:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not your better half by the sound of it.....maybe your other half you had hoped. keep a watch on him and if possible find his password to e mail. Keylogger things can be installed secretly on the computer and can be downloaded. This will then give you acess to all you should know. Don't confront until absolutely certain.
2007-03-28 02:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, u shouldn't really be checking his e-mail, but anyhows!!! If ur finding urself checking up on him there are obviously trust issues here. I don't know if u can check up on e-mails once they have been deleted,and his behaviour sounds very suspicious so I would just come clean and have it out with him, or just dump him coz how would you trust him again?
2007-03-28 02:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by donna ellen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could install some monitoring software on the PC if you're that worried or if he uses MSN messenger they have chat logs as well (that can be activated if they haven't already).
Though honestly it's probably better if you ask him - you can't have a relationship if there is no trust there!
2007-03-28 02:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is ask him and tell him that you feel you cant trust him and you wanna know whats going on and if he says nothing then spy on him to try get his log in details and pass word and find out for yourself x good luck
2007-03-28 03:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how do you know its a girl...and watz tha point of snooping around....that shows insecurity and nosyness...trust me what is hidden in the dark will come out into the light in no time...and talk to the him about why did he lie in the first place...question him....u have the right to bc he lied....but dont be to harsh in the beginnning epspicially if u know for sure he is lying...just let all his lies fall into place....etc...
2007-03-28 03:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Reeses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i shouldnt be telling you this realy, but go here
http://www.blazingtools.com/bpk.html
download the free trial then set it up, run your virus scan when it gets picked up tell your anti virus to ignor it.
set yourself up a hotmail account and get everything sent to that, you will get everything he has looked at on the net all emails he read all passwords. ssshhhh mums the word.
2007-03-28 09:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by sandpipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats with the better half, tell him what you know and confront him he sounds like a rat, there is a way to find out but i dont know how
2007-03-28 02:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him right out about this girl because if its all Innocent then he wont have anything to hide
2007-03-29 02:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by hobbiegirl@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋