How can i Be Confident!!!!!?
I mean while working If someone comes to me and i cant help the person or if someone insults me i become unconfident...my face turns red n i get a very bad feeling how can i change myself??
2007-03-28 02:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Attitude: you can't change yourself. What you can change is the words that come outof your mouth and the actions you do. Once it becomes a habit to answer differently then you will be changed. When we don't know the answer we all lack confidence. Only an idiot would be confident while doing the wrong thing. I think you show great potential and intelligence in recognizing your own limitations and trying to expand them. When I am asked for something at work which I don't now the answer -- I take the person asking and pass them on to my supervisor. The supervisor should know the answer and the person asking sees me as helpful as I passed them up the ladder. Good luck to you.
2007-03-28 02:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the real world it is impossible to ALWAYS have the answers. You can tell the person, "just a second, I will find out for you." And if the person insults you the problem is coming from him or her. Just learn that there are lots of difficult people out there. You are in customer service? This is a very difficult job. People are stupid sometimes. Don't let it get you down. I'm sure you are doing a fine job. Yes and learn to fake it. Just be nice not matter what. It will usually avoid problems esculating.
2007-03-28 03:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by JGidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all here doing our own thing. Life is our own ride try to enjoy it. Most of those people don't know much more than you. Don't believe they are any more important than you. Try finding the humor behind things. good luck.
2007-03-28 02:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let others control your emotions too much..be happy w/ yourself, find things you like about yourself , be kind to people but stand up for yourself.. those that respect you are the important ones....you shouldn't let the people who walk all over you control your happiness and confidence
2007-03-28 02:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up for yourself!
Just take a deep breath and answer back...dont let nuthing get u down!
2007-03-28 02:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by faking it. Soon enough, even you will believe it.
2007-03-28 02:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Veruca Salt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to do your job.
2007-03-28 02:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋