women don't you find that you still deeply desire to be found attractive by the men even when your not single?

Question

I find myself still wanting to be noticed by the opposite sex,because i want to feel attractive,it seems like we get too comfortable with our spouse,and its almost like we know they will never tell us the truth about our looks,but the attention from other males gives us a clue...I want to feel energy from the male species..even if im married.

Answer 1

Maybe it's my age (50), but I don't need anyone else's opinion to feel attractive. My self confidence, self esteem and inner beauty outweigh the effects of aging that are noticeable on the outside. I still think I'm a terrific AND beautiful person.

Answer 2

I think every person likes to know that they are attractive to others. Jeff Foxworthy makes a joke about needing to get new sunglasses at the start of bikini season. It gives you a lift to know that someone is "checking you out". I love the saying "Just because you're not buying, dosen't mean you can't window shop". I do a lot of "window shopping" and get a kick when I catch someone else "shopping" back!

Answer 3

I love my husband dearly and am completely happy with him but yes, I would still like to know that I'm considered attractive by the opposite sex.

Answer 4

Of course, its all normal, people like to feel liked and wanted by others. I've been going out with someone for over 2years, and we both still try and get noticed by others. Its just another way of feeling alive.

Answer 5

I agree,I am happily married and have no intention of cheating but I would be most upset to think that nobody found me attractive.

Answer 6

Yes, my woman of 11yrs. likes to brag to me about all the other guys that make compliments because I don't make enough so she gives me a clue when it's time to make some! LOL