I let him dress in my clothes last night and we had awesome sex but is he gay? I let him wear my bra, panties nylons skirt bouse jewerly makeup etc.. we had lots of fun
2007-03-28 02:33:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course your husband loved being dressed up as a girl, most guys do, but that doesn't make them gay or bi. You should worry or be scared, your husband is just a cross-dresser. And since you enjoyed it & he loved it, just dress him up as a girl more & have fun, but take him shopping for his own clothes so he doesn't have to wear your clothes.
2007-03-29 15:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if hes gay or not maybe the clothing is the turn on for him .It sounds like you had a great time yourself maybe it was a turn on for you also. Was it the fact that he was dressing like a woman or did you feel you was sleeping with a woman that made you have lots of fun .
We all have fantasies most never admit there's . There are allot of couples getting into porn nowadays men and woman most of them are watching a man and a woman having sex does that make that man gay watching another man do a woman and does that make that woman a lesbian ?
If your having fun with it then have fun . Maybe you should open your fantasies with him .You are just 2 people who are comfortable and open with each other .
2007-03-28 10:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cross dressers are not usually gay. What you need to ask him is if he is happy being a man or does he think he was born the wrong sex. If cross dressing is just a fetish and you are OK with it, who cares what he does. Just be sure you talk about it and do it lovingly. I am sure it was not easy for him to tell you his secret. Take Care
2007-03-28 09:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not mean he is gay, it is just a common gender dysfunction. Cross dressing is often a signal that your husband my be dealing with gender-disphoria, a belief that he should have been born a female, and this cross dressing can be a way for him to feel more comfortable in his body and more confident sexually. Seeing himself as a woman is usually a sign that he desires to be one. If this is the case it does not mean that he is gay or doesn't want to be with you, it just means that he is battling to stabilize his gender identity. Talk with him about why he likes it and DO NOT accuse him of being gay! Most cross dressers are straight.
2007-03-28 09:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by lovegodlots 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he isnt gay at all. some men love how womans clothes feel as we woman love to wear our mens boxers or t-shirts. dont worry at all he is not gay. and for the make-up and under garms hey we like em and some men love that stuff too. and more are open about it to wear this and especially he let YOU know, he could have hid it enjoy!
2007-03-28 09:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by 12121212 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't cheat on you. He doesn't beat you. You both enjoy the sex. Now you can share a wardrobe.
If he's a good guy why are you worried?
My wife had to deal with my drug addiction, now recovering.
This seems like a fairly harmless thing.
2007-03-28 09:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cross dressing has nothing to do with being gay. If it doesn't bother you, I'd say just have fun.
2007-03-28 09:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cross dressing does not make him gay. Sleeping with men would make him gay.
I say if you are comfortable with it and you two love each other, then let him be who he is and be happy.
2007-03-28 14:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that makes him gay. If it didn't bother you, I suppose there is not a problem having fun with his fetish. Personally, I would look for another man!
2007-03-28 09:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by Crabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is not gay, there are many cross-dressing straight males! it sounds to me like your relationship with your husband is rock solid and if you are both happy with the way things are then thats all that matters!
Good luck and blessed be
2007-03-28 09:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by See the rainbow not the rain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋