I need 20min to satisfied, is it normal? My husband always can not do much like 20min. He can do only 5min. Is it my fault that i am late? Kindly explain me.
2007-03-28 02:30:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Varies from woman to woman.
Most women can orgasm somewhere in the 15-30 min range but there are some women who fall outside that range.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Your husband needs to learn a little bit of stamina, though.
It is a common phenomenon. You are going to have to work on your husband to provide you with a little more.
Is it acceptable in your culture/belief system for him to give you oral sex or should he stimulate you in some other way?
2007-03-28 02:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the great mismatches of nature.
You are average and so is your husband. Research it. Most men in their 20s climax in less than four minutes. There are emollients that can be applied to just the right spot that will prolong things, and there is the time-honored procedure for premature ejaculation of withdrawing and gripping the penis hard for several seconds before resuming.
But wait, just wait. If you stay married into your forties or fifties, he will be puffing and plunging away long after you have finished and are using the TV remote, reading Better Homes & Gardens, or intermittently dozzing off.
This is the second great mismatch of nature.
In the meantime, you may try clitorial stimulation before, during or instead of his brief intrusion.
2007-03-28 10:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. My suggestion to you would be to have your husband satisfy ONLY you for a little bit just to get you nice and ready then when you are almost there then you can start intercourse. This should put you both within the same time line...
So basically more foreplay for you, less foreplay for him and
TADA .... you're both happy
Hope that helped
2007-03-28 09:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Toula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not late, it can just take us women longer sometimes it has to do with the position most of the time. Depending on your beliefs you might try another position such as you on top which allows you better control of angle, speed, penetration depth, and extra external stimulation.
2007-03-28 09:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by themaniccrafter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can answer your question with only one word.... VIBRATOR. If a woman has never used one.... you are missing out on super pleasure. Even for women with no problems orgasming... a vibrator can make it SUPER strong. I love love love mine...and my husband doesn't mind at all...
2007-03-28 10:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more foreplay before he enters you. Most men can not last longer than 5 min of stimulation to his penis. so you need to have him use his fingers and mouth on you more before he uses his penis
2007-03-28 09:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him go see a doctor so he can get some medicine that will make him last longer in the sack.
2007-03-28 09:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends on the woman,believe it or not on their religion.if you are brought up in a religion where sexual intercourse is sinful some woman never have orgasms
2007-03-28 09:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey take off pants and lie down! for men this is foreplay..women not so much. .. .. .. ..... .. .. .. new rule , "he's not allowed in until you have had at least one orgasm". now he won't like this new rule, but that's his problem..
2007-03-28 10:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try playing out a fantasy in your head while he is touching you, this will speed up your arousal.
2007-03-28 09:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by syd p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋