ex-gf she lives accross the street and they've been childhood friends. They know each other from pre-k. But recently i found out that she's a little whore, because she has been asking my husband to lunch and one night they went out she told him she's on birth control. I told my husband I didn't like that, she should know better she's married. I told him she wouldn't like it if i told her husband i was in birth control, but my hsbd said he would've just said ok just like he did. So did i think things too far? My husband thought nothing of it when she told him that she was on b.c. He ignored her because she was "drunk". I believe him, but i still dont want that whore acting like that. After all a guy is a guy and a whore a whore. Am I wrong?
2007-03-28 02:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way her husband is away in Iraq. Also i had no problem with my husband and her being friends, untill i found out she's a whore, she is also cheating on her husband.
2007-03-28 02:18:57 · update #1
you have every right to not want him to talk to her she is coming on to him if he doesn't tel her to stop then take it into your own hands but be nice and don't start a fight with her or he will be mad and by fight I mean fist fight good luck wiht the whore
2007-03-28 07:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the jealousy bug has bitten you. First off, has your husband ever slept with her? If not then the chance of it happening now is very slim, after all they've known each other almost all their lives and he hasn't done it yet. Jealousy is a sign of mistrust. It also makes you ugly. Maybe their friendship is like a brother sister relationship. Ask him... I have a lady friend who comes to me when she needs to talk about things she can't talk to someone else about. My girlfriend was jealous at first but when I told her what was going on she settled down. She wouldn't talk to my friend at all but now they are best friends, (that scares me sometimes too, LOL) If you love your husband then let it go. After all he did tell you about it and not try to hide it from you didn't he?
2007-03-28 11:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by davidaronis2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would just keep a close eye on him, but dont make it completely obvious. IDK the age group you all are in but I have been in a similar situation and have seen bad results. I hope everything works better for you though, and your husband is smarter than that. Maybe you should have a talk with the "whore" herself and let her know how it is going to be???
2007-03-28 11:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Brapp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that past should be in the past. If there are no connections between them kids or anything he shouldn't be. Cause some ex's are just very kinky into getting our man into trouble. We need to avoid that. Talk to him that you don't feel comfortable. If he chooses that it's childish for you to do that and that he won't than he's still interested. She and him need to understand that it's not right. Where there was fired, ashes are left behind. So blow out the ashes girl and keep him away from her. That's quick sand right there, I know.
2007-03-28 11:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋