I really love my boyfriend and he tells me he loves me too but hes always with his friends don't get me wrong i know guys need there guy time but he never wants to be around me anymore and every time i tell him i want to break up he never wants to let me go and apart of me doesn't want to let him go should I ?
2007-03-28 01:57:54 · 7 answers · asked by MDM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him, then tell him way later. You deserve better treatment. He is trying to control you, this will make for a long unhappy relationship for you.
2007-03-28 02:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by MEEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he is being a little selfish with you. I understand that he needs to spend time with his friends but he also has to understand that he has you and that you too need his affection. He is in a relationship with you and the relationship benefits from two people working on it not just one. Don't let him go just talk to him and tell him how you really feel, put your foot down and tell him that if he doesnt change you are going to leave him because it's not working, He is not putting enough effort on the realtionship to keep it around. Just tell him that there are more gys in this world that will be willing to spend more time with you his girl instead of just spending it with his boys. Dont get me wrong he could spend time with his boys but also he has you and he shouldnt take you for granted. Good Luck!
2007-03-28 02:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Armani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as what a quote says "If you really love someone, set him free. If he comes back, then you are really meant to be". Sometimes you have to let go of something in order for you to know his/her real value. If you will let go of each other, maybe he will realize that he really loves you. And he does, I think he will get back to you in no time. If he won't, then you're not meant to be.
2007-03-28 03:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a toughy... if you two never got to be together it's hard to have the kind of relationship you want and deserve. How does he treat you when your together? how long have this distance been going on?
If it's been awhile and he's constantly making excuses not to be around you I think you have the right Idea to break up with him... it'll be hard but you deserve better...
2007-03-28 02:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone if you let them go and they come back then its worth it if not its not meant to happen `dont let him control you he is telling you what is going on and he is in charge of the situation dont let him take charge of your life there is someone out there who will love you and not make you feel this way
2007-03-28 02:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the nature of your relationship is...but, it seems that if you are asking this question in the first place...i think you have your answer. Also, do you know why he wants to be with you?Ask him why he wants to be with you?Whats the point of your relationship?Why do YOU want to be with him? Or...tell him you need more quality time...communication communication communication ;)
Good luck
2007-03-28 02:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by GlobalMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better and he doesn't deserve you.
You are a mere convenience for him.
Where are his so-called friends when he comes to you?
He needs to get his priorities straight.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 03:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋