2007-03-28 01:31:58 · 31 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Uh..yeah. That's his job.
2007-03-28 01:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I don't think "allow" is the right word here, but I don't mind if he goes. I even encourage him. We even go together.
Just because a man goes to a strip club, does not mean he will cheat. If a man is going to cheat, he doesn't need to go to a strip cub.
We have a loving and trusting marriage.
Most dancers are more interested in the guys money than the guy.
2007-03-28 09:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Leather and Lace 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am a man and wont allow myself to go,I'm in love What do I need to go too a club ??? I get a strip show every night if I want and no cover charge...
2007-03-28 08:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by jackylberry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His chances of getting into "trouble" are a lot slimmer in a strip club than a regular bar. The women are only out for one thing in there, MONEY!
If you don't believe this just visit one. And you being a girl ask the girls. When a man or in some instances a woman runs out of cash or stops digging in the wallet, the fun is over.
Additionally, BY LAW, touching and fondling or any other physical contact for gratification between patrons and entertainers is expressly forbidden.
2007-03-28 08:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tall Chicky 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah. I've never seen the allure of the strip club, and wouldn't want anyone I was dating to go. I guess I wouldn't like the idea of her ogling another woman.
2007-03-28 13:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. I've offered to take him; I've got lesbian friends who have wanted to take him, but he won't go.
I go. I'm bisexual and he knows. It's not like I go there looking for anything, but to hang out with friends. It's nice to look, and I've had offers, but I got what I want at home.
I believe that men/women are far more likely to cheat with a church ongregation member/co-worker/secretary than a stripper. Many strippers I know are married and have children and don't do "that" anyway.
2007-03-28 09:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Songbird 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOL, While my other half isn't prone to interest in such things I would not presume to think that I own my other half in such a manner as to where I "allow" anything. I don't own hem nor does he own me. Any such suggestion that one person controls the actions of the other is a weakness in the relationship.
Our relationship is one of mutual respect. I won't do anything that I know would be upsetting to him and neither would he do anything that would be upsetting to me.
2007-03-28 08:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't want to go. He's too shy, lol. But if he did want to, I would definitely have a problem with it. I wouldn't go somewhere and drool over other men and I expect the same respect. It's all about compromise. Besides, what's the point?
2007-03-28 09:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, its the same as prostitution. Would you let your man hang out with candy girls on the street? No? Same thing. They are getting paid for spreading their legs for money. Same thing to me. I told my hubby if he wants to go to those clubs, let me know, I will do whatever those girls do, and then some.....
So far I have oil wrestled, mud wrestled, pole danced, etc. I will prove him wrong that I am the woman for him. Make your man want you, do some exciting things for him, he will be thankful for it, if not all out horny about it. It really kicks him up a notch as far as sex goes, he never thought I would do those things, but I did, just for him....it was kinda fun, too. He seems like a man possessed when we are intamate and understand each other about what each other wants out of our relationship.....drives me crazy, too....
2007-03-28 08:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
"Allow"? If you're in a loving committed relationship with a person you should view them as an equal, not a pet which you can "allow" to do things. This is exactly what makes me sick about most women. Someone needs to kick you off your high horse lady, just cause you have pretty boobies you're nothing special.
2007-03-28 10:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My man and I go see dick dancers all the time. Every gay club usually has them there for eye candy purposes.
2007-03-28 10:04:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋