i hav gf and had sex with females before ..i dont like to hav sex with males,but i really enjoy when i see and look at sexy guys..i mean sexy and handsome guys attract me but again i hate to hav sex with males..am i gay?
2007-03-28 01:04:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is exactly what's going on:
You're not gay and you're not bisexual, but you're a young man who's going through a stage of appreciation of beauty. You most probably want to be as handsome as you can be and you ADMIRE handsome/sexy men because you'd like to be one too. People who are not at all gay, do this all the time. Women will readily admit to it, but men, mistakingly, don't admit to it because they think people will think that they're gay. You must feel secure enough in your sexuality to admit admiring the beuty of the male figure, but don't worry; admiring is not homosexuality. Trust me if you were gay you'd know it. You just want to be like the men you admire and that's as normal as it gets.
2007-03-29 01:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is hard to sometimes determine if you are gay or not. I mean I've known for years now that I am a lesbian, but it took time, exploring with both sexes. Sure I can say that I have seen guys who look handsome, or have nice features, but I don't feel attracted. That you feel attracted you may just have more connection to men, although you are straight and like women. It's a complicated question, but I hope that the descision you make only leads you to happiness...
2007-03-28 01:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by ozzylvr13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are... Ever fallen in love with a man?
Sexy and handsome guys attract me to but never in a million years I'll have sex with them...
I love women and in particularly my own wife...
2007-03-28 01:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you do sound like a person who enjoys and appreciates esthetics of the male form. This is not homosexuality so much as simply homoeroticism, which are not mutually exclusive. Enjoy humanity in all it's form and worry not about your feelings, they're honest and that should suffice.
2007-03-28 01:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are bi. When you are attracted to men, you have some fears within you that inhibit you from having an encounter. Indeed, you will soon come out of these fears and at this stage you define your fears as your innate characteristic trait. Very soon, the thirst to have pleasure will burst you fears and you can realize that you are bi.
2007-03-28 03:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by sandhigdham 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with unclefrunk and JD....as a gay man I can appreciate a beautiful woman...I just don't feel a sexual attraction to her....same with you...you appreciate a handsome man.
2007-03-28 03:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by behrmark 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no. Every guy I know has found another guy attractive. If u want to have sex with them then you gay.
2007-03-28 03:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by sex-goddess-bigothgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be. you could also just as much be not.
perhaps you'd have to find out for yourself. if you would have sex with someone of the same gender and Liked it, then perhaps that experience should answer your question.
2007-03-28 03:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - am a girl and i look if i see a really sexy female
2007-03-30 01:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by bre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not gay because you said you don't like have sex with guys
l am 100% str8 girl but l also like to watch pretty girls
2007-03-28 01:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋