2007-03-28 00:54:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm shocked by the number of BJ comments. Any self respecting bloke will probably be happy just to be with you and your new little baby. Sex is not the be all and end all and if he is only happy when you sleep with him then there should be alarm bells ringing.
However, make him some nice food if you feel up to it and give him lots of cuddles, tell him how much you love him and what you want to do in a couple of months time..us men sometimes just want love and affection.
2007-03-28 01:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by itaintsnowing 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You've just had a baby! He should be the one trying to support and keep you happy for the next six weeks. Men can be very selfish at times,it's like having another baby.
2007-03-28 08:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should be happy already, given the fact that you just had his baby. If he is not able to go without any kind of sex for 6 weeks, then too bad for him. Your priority right now, for BOTH of you, is your newborn. If he can't understand that, he needs to grow up!
2007-03-28 11:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by you don't know my name! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you got to wait 6 weeks for a reason. I had a caesarian and had sex less than 2 weeks after. But as others said there is oral.
2007-03-28 01:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by shez 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
for gods sake! he cant wait 6 weeks? i bet he would be shocked to think that you have so little faith in him that you beleve he cant wait a measly 6 weeks for sex. he is a man not a beast. one would hope that he is already happy with the love of a good woman who has just bourne him achild
2007-03-28 03:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by fat momma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lots and lots and lots of oral!!!!
Also maybe spice things up a bit by bringing home some rauncy porn vids - and reinact whatever foreplay they're doing to your man - whilst hes watching it! Im sure that will keep him happy!
xx
2007-03-28 03:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do whatever is most comfotable for you as you dont want to hurt yourself as it could mean an even longer wait for you and him. Use you hand or your mouth depending on how comfortable it is. If you want take sexy pictures of yourself for him and give them too him to keep himself amused for a while. Id also recomend booking some sort of sexy weekend for after the six weeks. Good Luck
2007-03-28 01:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he can't go for 6 weeks without sex then he isn't the man you think he is. You worry about healing and about your child, not your man's libido. I'm assuming you two will have the rest of your lives to catch up on these 6 weeks of non-sex.
2007-03-28 00:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Why are you worried about this? Will he leave you if you don't sexually satisfy him? Let him know that it's a reality and as your partner he may just need to wait.
What are you going to do when you are an exhausted new mom in two or three months and have no time for him???
I wouldn't expect my wife to take care of that aspect unless she truly wanted to do it. I'm a grownup and can't see making her responsible for my physical pleasure when there's nothing in it for her
2007-03-28 01:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by David W 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
yr man should be feeling like the happiest man in the world if u have just given him a baby, concentreate on lots of cuddles instead as yr gona need yr sleep with a baby around
2007-03-28 01:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by jacques 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋