See, I've been dating guys since now, but a few months ago I started being attracted to females, I've also fantisized about them. Am I Bisexual/Straight/Lesbian?
How do I tell people if im bisexual or a lesbian?
2007-03-28 00:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
all the guys i went out with, i havent been attracted to them, i just thought of them a a good friend
2007-03-28 00:46:19 · update #1
Well it's normal to think about people of the same sex in a sexual way. I don't think you should pigeon-hole yourself into any catergory. Also, don't worry about telling anyone your sexual preference it is no ones business but yours.
I have had experiences with women but only ever dated men. I think you should enjoy yourself and not be too hung up on labels.
2007-03-28 00:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by guapita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women, experience this feeling at least once. Test the water-see if being with a woman is really what you want. If you can't see yourself being with a woman for the rest of your life or having sex with a woman only- then you are not a lesbian. But if you need both sexes to satisfy you-you are a bisexual. Most bi sexuals need both-well that's why they are bi sexual. But you can't label yourself until- you have actually had sex with a woman. Hope this helps :)
2007-03-28 07:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by It must be said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by not having to label your sexuality.I'm very attracted to some women and have been for years.Women are beautiful and sexy and they turn me on.;You don't need to discuss your sexual interests with anyone.i have a boyfriend and have had a few experiences with women,that didn't go well but if Pamela Anderson came knocking at my door the boyfriend would be kicked to the curb or allowed to watch only.... shes all mine buddy back off.
2007-03-28 07:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can really answer your own question and as for those who say you arent lesbian until you actually have sex with a woman, please disregard this type of thought........explore your sexuality, see what clicks for you..........after you know yourself a bit better then you can label yourself if you like....as for telling people, that decision should be made on an 'as needed' basis......
there is no easy answer to this question, I struggled with it for nearly 20yrs before I knew the answer that was really already in my head, I just wasnt ready to accept it.......
good luck in your search,
D~~
2007-03-28 08:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by D~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the TV for a month..... then you can assess yourself better... w/o the influence of old perverts like Sumner Redstone.
2007-03-28 07:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Joe C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I heard from a doctor that it's natural for a girl to feel that way at least once in their life. I can understand why. I also heard that if you have to ask, then you're not.
2007-03-28 07:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try and see what you think a few weeks after.
2007-03-28 07:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r a bisexual as u r attracted to both sex.......
2007-03-28 07:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by shail_8203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're not until you actually have sex with a woman, so until that happens don't worry about it
2007-03-28 07:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , just tell them : i'm a lesbian
2007-03-28 07:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋