idk if im pregnant.. i cant get a test...?

Question

ok.
idk if im pregnant or not
i cant go out and get a pregnancy test.
no car. no money. no parents. or friends that would get one for me. no taxis where i live. no nearby stores. its pretty hopeless.
but i keep thinking i am 4 some reason.
-headaches
-im getting fatter
-a BIG increase in discharge. (clear)
-nauesia

yes i get outta the house.
when im with my mom.
im 14
yeah sorry not getting one when im with her
and people DONT BE JUDGEMENTAL

omg people u are dumb
im FOURTEEN and love at HOME with my PARENTS.
my boyfriends 16 but i dont wanna tell him to buy me one cause what if im not ill be making a big deal over nothing

ohh also
i feel like tightning or movement in like my lower abdomen.

im not allowed 2 go out with him.
he doesnt drive eather..

Answer 1

Well if you can't get one yourself, then it's either, you ask your parents to get you one, have your boyfriend pick one up for you, you pick one up with your boyfriend's money when you're out with him. Or have him take you to a planned parenthood, or free pg test place. How late is your period? This isn't something you want to put off if you are. Stressing about it will only make your period later if you aren't. You did the act, now be mature and find out. If it comes back negative, make sure you are well protected so you don't have to worry about this again.

Adding in since you did - If you can't go out with him, when did you find the time for sex? You need to take responsiblity for your actions and find out if you are or not. Obviously you are down to your last resort and you need to ask your parents to buy one for you. Sweetie, since you can't get out, your bf doesn't drive, you need to be mature and figure it out!

Answer 2

Why can't you tell your mother and have her help. Sure she would be upset but if you are, how do you think you are going to hide it from her. You ask us not to be judgemental so I won't. It is not my place to judge you.
typically, in the first couple of pregnancies, there is no showing until late in the second trimester, so getting fatter doesn't mean anything except hormones are changing which is normal. My second daughtes is 16 and developed a pooch on her that caused everyone to think she was pregnant except her. If you live in a remote area or are sheltered from the world, you may not know what actually causes pregnancy. I met a girl who at 19 years old thought that she could get pregnant by men fondling her.
Nausia is a sign of possible pregnancy but, it can also be brought on by stress or many other factors. Sometimes just the stress of thinking your pregnant can cause these symptoms to appear. If your not late than the "Tightness and movements" you feel are your imagination. In the first trimester the size of the baby is so small that you will not be able to feel anything like that. You have a computer and the internet, look it up on google.
You really need to discuss this with someone who is more familiar with your circumstances and living situation.

Answer 3

Ok, first: how long ago was your last period? If you have missed your last period by two weeks, then it is time to get a test. If this is not a fake, then you have ONE and ONLY ONE choice. Go get a test.

This isn't time "I don't have any money" or "I don't have a car" kind of whiney crap. Time to grow up. You are going to have serious medical complications if you do not get the proper medical treatment T-O-D-A-Y!

Get on the phone to your boyfriend. Tell him "go get me an EPT test right now and bring it over." He must not be under house arrest like you, and even if he doesn't have a car he has two legs and can walk. I mean, he obviously can get over to your house to have sex, no?. They only cost like $5 so skip your lunch and use your lunch money to buy one.

If you keep making excuses, putting your life and the life of the baby at risk, everyone here will think you are just faking.

Go take a test--NOW, and then come back and ask the next question: "How do I tell my parents?"

Answer 4

Does your boyfriend know? Are u sure he has no way of getting you one? Do u have a good relationship with his mother? What about asking her to help u? What about talking to your school guidance counsellor, a teacher or someone like that? Maybe they can help you.
Your other option would be to go see a doctor and get them to give you a pregnancy test. Or is there any clinics in your area?
I know it's hard, but u really HAVE to tell your mother. By the few symptoms u listed, to me it sounds like u may be pregnant, and u need to find out, asap!!!

Answer 5

If you aren;t allowed to go out with your boyfriend, how did you get pregnant? You have to have sex to get pregnant and if that hasn't happened than you are definitely not pregnant.

Now, if you did somehow manage to get alone time with your BF and had sex, then you need to do a test. Tell him to get the test. If you aren't pregnant, than no big deal, but it is important to find out the truth. If he makes a fuss or won't do it, go to the school nurse. If that won't work, your only choice is to go to your parents and tell them. You can't just wait this out. Ifyou are missing periods, it is time to step up and take on the responsiblity for the choices you made. No more time for excuses or avoiding the truth. Like I tell my daughter...if you are old enough to choose to have sex, that means you are old enough to accept the consequences that can come from it. Talk to your boyfriend...talk to your Mom. Find out the truth and then go to the doctor because pregnancy for a 14 yr old carries a lot more risk than pregnancy in a fully grown woman,.

Answer 6

Have you missed any periods? The symptoms you gave can be along with pregnancy but they can be symptoms of other things to. You need to get to a dr somehow.

Answer 7

well sounds like if you are feeling movement then you are, you really need to talk to your mom and get checked out by a doctor

Answer 8

Kids your age have a million girl friends. Ask one of your close friends who you trust will not spread rumors to pick one up for you. This is not rocket science.

Answer 9

you should telll him 2 buy the test for u even if he does ,ake a big deal bcuz u should kno b4 its 2 late

Answer 10

KEEP YOUR ZIPPER ZIPPED NEXT TIME!!!!!
I thought your parents had money? you know, for your sweet sixteen? Your a bad liar.


ya and good luck with the baby!