2007-03-27 23:20:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well gotta be practical here....the close friendship is nt possible...however with time, all wounds are healed....its totally logical that u cannot stop thinkin about ur love, however, it doesn't help.
2 options 4 u
1. live ur life n let him/her live.......rediscover ur hobbies, ur interests, watch comedies....especially sitcoms eg evrybody loves raymond, friends etc, n m sure u ll find sm1 else...
2.make ur life complicated by runnin after a person who has already made a decision about his/her life...dnt complicate ur love's life as wel....all in all this will ruin everything u already got.....
its simple....make urself available to other things, to ur close 1ns...Cherish what u have!!!
2007-03-27 23:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by hitubaba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's Elsa?
2007-03-27 23:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is said that when you love some one you only want happiness for them so if they are happy by marrying some one else you should be happy and be friends. But as far as i am concerned i don't think i can be then friend with that person coz it will hurt my heart so Good Bye is best thing for that person
2007-03-27 23:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by ash a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this person you would want them to be happy even when your not. Have you told this person you love them? If not try that before the wedding, but if you have you need to let go. Be friends only if you think you can.
2007-03-27 23:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! You only get one go around in this life. If you love someone tell them let them decide. Maybe they love you too and are just settling for this guy because he wants to marry them and they need a secure life. If you want them to marry this person then befriend their mate. If you don't ask them to marry you. If you truly love them. Don't let them slip through your fingers.
2007-03-27 23:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everything happens for a reason! You just have to tell yourself that one day you'll be the one to get married. Move on, just like they did.
2007-03-27 23:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love them, you want them to be happy. You just try not to spend too much time around them. So sorry, I had to do that too. I know how much it hurts.
2007-03-27 23:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and do your best
2007-03-27 23:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋