how to reject someone that want you to be his special friend but you don't want to hurt his feeling... i'm afraid he wouldn't be my friends anymore.
2007-03-27 23:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by chelsea_13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you mean by "special friend" - like boyfriend-girlfriend?
If that is the case, perhaps you should just tell him that you are not ready for a 'special' type of relationship, but that you want to keep his friendship because you value it very much.
I think that if he refuses to be your 'friend' under these circumstance, you are better off that way.
You do not state your age, if you are in school, or if you have some one specific in mind to have as a "special friend".
2007-03-27 23:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by A JA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend I mean your real friend then he will respect you and just be your friend. And if he don't want to be your friend anymore then he was never your friend begin with. So don't sweat the small stuff just do what you have to do.
2007-03-28 06:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by MS_CANDYLICKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him straight out, and if he wont take your feelings on board he cannot be as good a friend as you first thought,
2007-03-28 07:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be diplomatic and careful with your words in telling him about your rejection of him,
2007-03-28 06:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to be understanding towards your feeling.
2007-03-28 06:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by ash a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
......... its a tough question actually but what i think is to make a card for him saying what u wanna say and ummm give it to him and wait to see his reaction.
i know you may not like this answer but try.
2007-03-28 06:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u'll have to be extremely careful what u say or do so that he will not get the wrong impression.
2007-03-28 06:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by lilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and I am sure he will understand.
2007-03-28 06:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by islandwaterdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are already involved.
2007-03-28 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him honestly about how you feel..he'l surely understand..
2007-03-28 06:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋