My Wife cheated on me, and I don't know if that is a bad thing. I'm stupid, and I lack common sense. She used to complain I never take her out or treat her good, and she didn't have any common sense either.
We have 3 kids, and if we divorced, would I have to pay for child support? I'm too stupid, I can't think for myself. I have no common sense.
My sister has a Husband that hits her and gets drunk. Should she leave him? I am stupid and have no common sense, and she also is stupid and has no common sense, what should she do?
My Wife also caught me in a compromising situation with my Secretary. Should she be mad? Was I actually cheating? I am stupid and have no common sense. I can't think for myself.
My Wife hits and yells at my kids, and yet she has the guts to say I am the reason we are unhappy. Please help me. I am stupid and have no common sense. I can't think for myself.
Given my situation and Questions, I feel like I am related to most of the people here. Maybe?
2007-03-27 23:10:30 · 14 answers · asked by The Sylvan Wizard 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Note to MagicMan*** Is poor grammar and poorly asked Questions synonymous with marital problems? If so, why do many college educated people have marital problems also?
2007-03-28 00:35:41 · update #1
****Betty Htch**** You are but a very wise woman I believe. I think you understand where I am coming from.
2007-03-28 00:37:53 · update #2
***NOTE TO ATAHSINA***
If what I posted is Poetry, and you suggest I am a Psycho, then I would suggest that you are sick for calling such Poetry, and suggest you are a WOman Beater's Wet Dream!
2007-03-28 01:37:14 · update #3
That sure was a lot of typing to make a point good job!
2007-03-27 23:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats twisted. I hope your not serious. If your serious that your wife cheated on you that is a bad thing, but if you didn't treat her well and she caught you in a compromising position she should be mad. In this case splitting up and paying child support might be best if neither of you has the sense to be decent parents maybe you should even consider putting your children up for adoption before they become as warped as you both are. If she hits and yells at your children this is unacceptable behaviour. Your kids can be happy & healthy only if they have good parents. If your sister has a drunken husband who beats her, she should leave him. Maybe your sister has the sense to leave her husband and take your kids and raise them to save them from the stupidity of you and your wife. I wish your children the best. As for you and your wife, you should grow up. Your kids only get one childhood, are you being the parents they deserve?
2007-03-28 06:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Stormy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your situation, but with so many problems I almost think this is a joke.
But, from what you said I think you do not pay enough attention to your wife in many ways. Maybe a few more hugs and kisses and other stuff would help. And maybe get a baby sitter and go out to a nice restaurant and a movie would make life better for you both.
Your sister should leave her husband and you know it.
2007-03-28 06:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really! You are a bunch of loosers who have no common sense. What is wrong here?
1. You cheated on your wife. You should be ashamed of yourself. You have three children who deserve parents who love each other. What kind of example are you making for them? Do you want them to do the same to their spouce?
2. Your wife complains that you don't treat her well and won't take her out? First, why aren't you treating her well? Secondly, she cheats on you because you won't take her out? How LAME. She has other problems and professional help should be sought. Marriage counceling for both of you.
3. Your sister gets beat up by a drunk and you don't know what to do? Of course she should get out of there. Her husband is hurting her. Get him professional help for the drinking. Then counceling to fix the relationship.
4. Your wife shouldn't hit your children.
You have trust issues, infadelity problems, anger managment and need marriage counceling.
2007-03-28 06:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Steven A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First....You and your wife both did stupid things with other people, if the relationship isn't good enough for y'all to be faithful then I suggest y'all get a divorce...its not healthy for your children to be in the middle of their mother and father messing around on each other.
2nd...theres nothing you can do about your sister getting beat except let her know that you're there for her when she feels like she's ready to leave.......she's old enough to make her own decisions, if she wants to stay with someone who beats her then thats her...
3rd....why would you allow your wife to hit and yell at your children, you're just as wrong as she is for allowing it to happen.
4th...y'all are both wrong....
2007-03-28 06:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, given the questions you asked I will have to agree with you...you are stupid and have no common sense.
However, your grammar and question is well typed so I think you are trying to be funny.
2007-03-28 06:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a marriage counselor for you and your wife, a therapist for your kids, and bring your sister to the battered women's clinic.
2007-03-28 06:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you writing a poetry?marital issues are nothing to be making fun off. i think this is a sick joke you are playing.and no, you do not relate to any of us here. we are not psycho like you.
2007-03-28 06:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i don't normally think it is cool to call someone stupid...but yes, you are stupid...oh yeah, and you have no common sense. atleast you could figure that much out for youself, congrats!
2007-03-28 08:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cinna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't beat yourself up. You will find the answers to all your questions. I hope you are not related to most of the people on here that would be disastrous.
2007-03-28 06:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋