my bestfren is always tell me to dont trust my boyfren..but i find him very careing,uderstanding n loving..i found dat he wus just talkin friendly to my other fren n she said that she must not talk to any gurls..but idont find it wrong at all! whats her problem if i let him talk t other gurls? n we trust each other very much! its none of her problem..i nevewr ask her to couple or brkup with her boyfren..coz itz her life! i dont fell thay she cares for me..i just feel that she is pushing me around..how should i tell her? i cant just go up to her n say she is bugging my life! cos i know if i say that, later she will backstab me! n i dont 1 to lose her after 10yeras of friendship..hw should i tell her without lookin at her?
2007-03-27 22:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg. another b*tchy jealous friend. Does this b*tchiness in the world ever stop?
Sweetie....your friend is jealous. DON'T BREAK UP WITH YOUR BF just because she said that he isn't being good to you.
Tell her that she's freaking bugging you (But nicely in a calm way so that she feels embarrassed to have poked her nose in your life in the first place)....and to make her a little more sorry...tell her it's ok and that you understand that she's getting stressed about how your bf treats you.
2007-03-27 23:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can't trust your boyfriend bcos without trust there can't be friendship? Call your best friend one on one and ask her her reasons for telling you not to trust your boyfriend. Maybe there is something she has seen or noticed in him that made her say that. It just can't be bcos she saw him talking friendly with other girls. She is hiding something from you maybe bcos she doesn't want you to be hurt. If she is really your best friend why should she back stab you after telling her you mind?
2007-03-27 23:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by ijepums 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be thinking that she can loose ur friendship! Do onething! take her to ur boyfriend and make her to talk with him and she may find him as a good person. Console her that i can leave either u or him! Why cant the three of become good friends in a general view!
2007-03-27 23:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol if you know that if you talk to her about the way you feel and she will only end up stabbing you in the back later for it is that really the kind of friend you want anyway? Now, she is only doing it because she does care for you maybe...i don't know her or you so i can't really tell you....but, just tell her thanks for the concern i'll talk to him about it....done =P
2007-03-27 23:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by body of a buddha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to her sayings. Just say "ok" and ignore her "wisdom". If you tell her to keep her thoughts for herself, she will anyway get annoyed. So, better pretend you don't hear her, let her talk by herself and do what you wanna do.
2007-03-27 23:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a very thoughtful letter explaining what is upseting you. Tell her you want to remain friends.
2007-03-27 23:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men come and go
best friends are forever
I agree she has no right to tell you to tell him that
but think honestly.....
in 20 years do you think you will still be with him? Do you think you and she will still be friends?
2007-03-28 02:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by jill_loves_cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what is her problem anyway?
and tell her how important they both are to you..
and by the way, you shouldn't loose a friend for your boy,
nor should you have to loose your boy for your friend..
2007-03-27 23:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by rianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋