how do you get away from a man who impregnated you on purpose? My boyfriend and I want to keep the baby but the biological father wants the baby, But i dont want anything to do with the biological father.. what can i do??
2007-03-27 22:52:32 · 16 answers · asked by lilflashinchick15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy is a drug addict and is in and out of jail monthly
2007-03-27 22:58:13 · update #1
Don't put his name on the birth certificate, put no one's name or your boyfriends. A girl I know did this. The only thing is that you won't be able to collect child support from the biological father then. And if your boyfriend's name is on the birth certificate then some day if you broke up then he would technically be responsible to pay child support. If you don't want the biological father in your life then don't put him on the birth certificate, he will have no legal standing. If he is so into drugs he probally wont want to go threw all the hassle to take you to court and pay for a paternity test to prove he is the father. Good Luck!
2007-03-27 23:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the biological father pursues this legally through paternity, and requests visitation, and pays child support, not a whole hell of a lot. He, fortunately cannot simply "have" the baby. You are a fit mother and NO court in the land is going to just give him the child. Visitation perhaps. However anyone that impregnates you on purpose, knowing it was not your intention... must be watched very closely. So, you need to dig up some stuff on this guy. Not sure what your financial situation is..but if you know his social security number you can do a background check on him...or hire a private detective to find anything that might help your case. Sneaky people are controlling people IMO. You do not need an "Amber Alert" because stupid decides to take off with the child someday. You must follow your instincts on this and do whatever is necessary, and legal of course, to protect your child.
2007-03-27 23:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, not much. If he is the biological father, he has rights. I'm not sure what you mean by he wants the baby but if you are talking about custody then that's pretty hard to take away from the mother unless he can prove you are unfit. If he is serious, he will probably take you to court to get visitation and
you make sure you get child support. I'm sorry to say that once you have a child with someone...you are stuck with them for a while.
2007-03-27 23:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by ☼♫Hmm..Interesting♪☼ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for starters what do u mean he imprgnated you on purpose it takes two to tango and two to concieve a child, u obviuosly werent on contraception and werent using condoms so its both your faults........ if you decide to have this baby then thats great and if your current bf will be in the picture thats great too.... by the sounds of it though you will need help from social services on how to deal with the biological father........but unfortunately he is the father and regardless whether he is a drug addict and in and out of jail he has the right to see his child........... all i can say is best of luck......... and make sure that \yu take good care of your un born babie and when it is born do the best by the baby............... take care.
2007-03-27 23:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since your having his child there is really no way of getting rid of this guy unless you and your new boyfriend can prove him to be an unfit parent and get full custody of the child that way he would be out of your hair for good also i would follow he full custody with restraining orders to keep him away from you and baby
2007-03-27 22:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by adrian w 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango...
I say seek legal advice, you may want to keep the guy away from you yourself, but he has a right to see the baby when it is born, of course you can fight this in court (custody battle).
Him being involved in your childs life does not necessarily mean he has to be involved in yours, shared custody.
2007-03-27 23:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Harmz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You telling me you had no idea this guy was on drugs??? Drug use leads to disease and sex with him gives you and the baby the disease--he wants the kid?? Let him have it...maybe it will keep him out of jail
2007-03-27 23:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him to court for custody and tell them that he impregnated you on purpose...and tell them you feel like he's a bad influence on your child.
2007-03-27 22:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much as you want to do that you should not keep the baby away from their father. That child will resent you when they get older. I promise you. You have no right to keep that child away from their father...it's wrong and cruel.
2007-03-27 22:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
not much unless he VOLUNTARILY gives up rights. it takes two to make a baby and both have rights and responsibilities...see a lawyer.
2007-03-27 22:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋