2007-03-27 22:45:49 · 28 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I will never quite understand how on a site where asking the question "Is being gay a choice or are you born that way?" will get at least fifty righteous answers educating the questioner on the fact that sexual orientation- gay and straight- is the way you're born, and definitely not a choice, we can still have people agree that the sexual orientation known as bisexuality is somehow not innate, but a choice, and thereby greedy.
I'm bisexual, and I've always felt that way. There's never been a conscious choice of mine on the matter, and I behave no differently than I would if I were a monosexual. The only difference is that I happen to feel attraction to both sexes. Now you tell me- how do you stop that? Isn't that like telling a gay person to simply choose to be straight?
My main point: no, bisexuals aren't greedy. If someone's greedy, it's them, not their sexual orientation.
2007-03-28 07:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuals, despite being attracted to both genders, don't fall for double the amount of people compared with homosexuals/heterosexuals. A bisexual falls for the same amount of people, but they are spread across both genders.
If in a given population, a heterosexual male falls for 6 women, and a homosexual male falls for 6 guys; a perfect 50/50 bisexual would fall for 3 males and 3 females.
A straight leaning bisexual (Kinsey 2) may fall for 4 females and 2 males. A gay leaning bisexual (Kinsey 4) may fall for 4 males and 2 females.
2007-03-28 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah I'd say they are just plain "curious and open minded". I used to be bi but more straight now a days. Mostly being bi is all about experimenting and In my opinion we have the better time ha x
2007-03-30 12:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by chris c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no....because it`s confusing.
I chose to live in a heterosexual relationship, but I know I have feeling for women too and have had relationships with women in the past . I wondered for a long time whether I was in fact lesbian and in denial.....but realise that I am bi. I may never have another relationship with a woman, but the part of me that also desires women is still there.
2007-03-28 15:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by psychokitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No we are not greedy. We just feel an attraction to both sexes. We have monogamous relationships just like heteros, and gay couples.
2007-03-28 08:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think they are greedy, they are just keeping their options open, variety is the spice of life! Lol
2007-03-28 05:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suspect many people are "bisexual", but, in our culture, it is inappropriate to admit to. This is different than being promiscuous, which, is greedy.
2007-03-28 06:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by goldandsilver 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeh! Bisexuals, i mean come on leave something for the rest of us, doesn't help that most of the bisexuals i know are only bi because they ran out of things to hump! So literally, there's no one left!
2007-03-28 07:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope. Just plain lucky!
2007-03-28 05:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by feel_like 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, bisexuals are people who are "confused about their sexuality." I am constantly hearing the homosexual people saying that being gay isn't a choice, it seems to me that the bisexual community is mocking your beliefs because they are making it a choice. I also know women who aren't bisexual who have had sex with a woman to please their man. That's doing something you wouldn't naturally do for the sake of someone else. It's a choice.
2007-03-28 07:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋