i dont feal enything from thes i like romance from my men but i dont get that i say im getting to old for that stuff im not in sex at all what i got to do to keep a men /?
2007-03-27 22:35:11 · 17 answers · asked by metzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to be honest with the men that you are dating and going to marry before you marry them. Tell them up front that you dont like sex that much or very ofthen so if they want to be with you they may not always get alot of sex... This way if the man does not want to be with you or want to marry you for this reason then he can back out ahead of time and then you wont be divorcing so much.The right guy for you will love you unconditionally with or without sex. Good luck to you.
2007-03-27 23:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you "don't like to much sex" is that like hardly ever, once a month, once a year?
The first answer hit the nail on the head...they didn't know about your sex drive before they married you?
You consider yourself 'normal' and you like romance but you don't like sex. Some women don't like a lot of sex but men do regardless of preference (gay or straights).
Men genitals are exposed causing easy stimulation and testosterone flows. Some men are like you so you should find a man that is compatible with your wants and needs.
2007-03-28 06:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want romance but not sex?
Its a bit like asking the guy to enjoy cooking but don't eat.
You really know the answer to this. There are few guys in the world who will romance and marry without sexuality. Deal with it or stay single.
2007-03-28 06:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex keeps the relationship stronger and u said that u didn't like too much but u like it and it is sufficient to make one happy . if it is sufficient then ur old hubbis didn't understand u .actually i want to tell u truth that most of men like sex than romance so plz be conscious now in finding a next hubby.
2007-03-28 06:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you this but you need help, you cant expect a man to want less than all of your love including your body. There's no age that says that youre too old to have sexual urges...there are women in their 90's still going at it with much younger men
2007-03-28 05:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nitebreed MN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see your doctor and see if there is a problem.
Sex is a big part of any relationship. After you lost your first husband the light should have gone off to seek help.
2007-03-28 06:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating and marriage are for people who want to GIVE OF THEMSELVES, to enhance the quality of life for someone else. Even when they don't feel like it. The way your question is worded, sounds like you're not ready for that. There's nothing wrong with wanting romance. But you sound as if you want your needs met without the obligation to meet his needs.
2007-03-28 06:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you were watching too many romance movies, where the actors and actresses play romantic roles in a romantic place doing romantic things.
but don't you know that sex is the highest form of love?
if you consider yourself romantic, you should learn how to satisfy your man thru sex.
2007-03-28 05:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get 1 Without An D*ck
2007-03-28 05:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Peeti 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Find a good lover, then let us know your opinion about sex
2007-03-28 06:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋