I am married and am very much in love with my husband. Recently, I bumped into my ex. Meeting him after many years brought back some memories. Though I am over him, I would like to stay in touch with him. My husband says he doesn't mind if I do, but he wouldn't like to meet him...Is it ok to be friends with my ex? Is it ok if I met up with him?
2007-03-27 22:29:55 · 15 answers · asked by S R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's alright to be friends with him..dont get too involved as your husband doesnt want to meet with him.It wont be wise to meet with him alone and create problems in your family life.u can talk to him over the phone every now and then.But make sure that yr husband really doesn't mind.good luck:)
2007-03-27 22:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and am still in touch with three of my ex's. My husband doesn't have a problem with it at all because he knows that at the end of the day, I go home with him. My ex's visit occasionally at our home or we meet for coffee. I would'nt meet him if your husband has a problem with it - keep it casual - the occasional email or phone call.
2007-03-28 00:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. your EX is an EX and no matter what your husband says, you should keep away from him. Old memories are bad which can take you to places to cheat your husband.. So get him off your life!!!
2007-03-27 22:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it brought back memories and you wanna keep in contact then it means it brought back good memories and that's where the danger is, met my ex and before i knew it things were getting a little hot... its that comfort zone you know him he knows you it seems innocent but its not, if you asking this question you looking for something to say its ok, i think you 've made your mind up already-be safe
2007-03-27 22:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by sensei D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very unhappy, I suggest to divorce your husband and get back with your ex, so you can have a happy life, but hurry up before the cheating starts.
2007-03-27 22:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by pumas10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you've made it clear there's NO romantic flame in your heart for good ol' ex.....and your hubby is cool with the idea.
Question is: does the ex have any flame he'd like to re-kindle with YOU????
You see....that's the rub: a potential problem should the ex have such feelings....if they are feelings and/or/coupled with the "blue balls". And really, the same applies to YOU as well. Hey: women get "blue balls" just as bad as men do.
Sure....go for the friendship---but be focused on the look-out on ex-boyfriend's feelings.....and YOURS as well.
2007-03-27 22:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, it means that you cant get along in a relationship and you want to be good friends, sumtimes u find that ur exes are better towards you as a friend and nothing else. Hope i helped im any way.
2007-03-27 22:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Evertongrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea.
If & when you do see him, be cordial but nothing more. Trying to be 'friends' again will lead to nothing but trouble. You have both chosen different paths for a reason, no need to tread over old ground.
2007-03-28 00:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it also be ok if your hubby does the same thing to you?
just because he said yes doen't mean it's fine with him. im sure deep inside he's mad as hell.
but he respects you as a person and you should respect your husband too.
he wants you to decide for yourself! as a wife, he expects you to say "no."
2007-03-27 23:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is it sounds like your husband trusts you and if you have no plans on cheating the there is no reason you cant be friends
2007-03-27 22:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋