Can you tell me, how to keep tears from falling when we feel dissapointed or sad? Sometimes I just feel that I cry easily. Hmm...I think I need lesson from guys, how do you do that??
2007-03-27 21:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First I think that it is wonderful that you cry ...as corny as that may sound.
To answer your question,
I would say think of the situation as an exercise in self control, for the moment.
If a situation happens that makes you want to cry, try delaying the response until you are alone. if they come anyways let it flow.
.Sometimes crying is perceived by some people as a sign of weakness, but the truth is it's a sign that your strong enough to be vulnerable.:)
Some "Guys", are afraid to "cry", that doesn't make em better than you, their just a more insecure.
So don't take lessons from them , teach them one...after the tears have dried.
2007-03-27 22:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought of trying to stop tears from falling, that could be helpful, but it is actually healthy to cry, and sometimes we need to just get our feelings out.
ARGHH! I hate the person above! That's the only answer this person gives! Is a link to a dating sight! It's so annoying!
2007-03-27 21:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by ≈[Łąūřėņ]≈™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and u cry until finally u don't have to any extent further tears and enable purely silence talk. than u choose to fade by some ability, do dissapear perpetually, what experience has it to stay after THIS? (despite the fact that could be this THIS)..yet u upward thrust up and circulate on, in any different case u might know that u are a loser. and u locate out , after a year or extra or after an indeffinite time...that this morning sky is extreme and little ones smile...and u sing with excitement..after all rains sunlight comes, whether there have been tornados..
2016-10-20 02:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you start to cry try to find a reason for that. If it's worth it, I ask you why should you stop. But I believe most of the times it's not!
2007-03-27 21:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mehrdad Shahabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard. its an emotion. youll feel it if you want to or not. we cant hide emotions or choose them....
id say just think of something else that will bring out other emotions. think of happy times, funny things and youll end up with a smile instead. but to stop yourself crying.... you cant. just keep yourself busy and filled with other emotions instead.
2007-03-27 21:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by chnuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think any one could give you a real advise of how to stop cuz its normal but maybe you are more sensitive or the things could make any one cry keep coming your way...any way its also a weapon......!!!!!
2007-03-27 21:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by jed_ss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying is a good thing to let it out. just do it under your pillow before bed.
2007-03-27 21:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by flashimashiflashimashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sensitive, that's all. Quite normal. Don't ask us. We're not normal.
2007-03-27 21:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people cry..no big deal..sometimes it's unavoidable when it hurts so much
2007-03-27 21:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋