my father is hunting a guy to marry me if father ask me to talk to him how do i find that he is best for me.
2007-03-27 21:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your father should let you find your true love on your own.
2007-03-27 21:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your father is hunting the guy??? cant you find your own guy and choose him and get to know him to marry him? You need to get to know this guy and fall in love with him and over time know if he is the right one for you or not? Make sure he is the right guy and that you are marrying for love and all the right reasons or DO NOT MARRY this man. Your father cannot hunt a man for your to marry . You need to do the searching and hunting yourself. Your father does not have to marry and live with them .... YOU DO! It is not your fathers place to find and pick your furture husband for you.... It is your place to. How old are you anyway if i may ask and where are you from?
2007-03-28 06:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How luck you are. Father is interested in daughter's welfare. To find out true love, have a personal meeting with that guy as a modern girl and clear out that he is the best for you. If he misbehaves in talke or any other behaviour, you say to father and then decide.
2007-03-30 04:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot find true love just by looking at someone. You actually have to talk to a person, try to know about him, his hobbies etc. For me atleast I had a list of qualities I wanted to have in a guy I get married to. If 60- 70% of that list is satisfied you can go for it. Even then please make through investigation of the guy. Makes life easy later on. Still life is bit of compromise fron both sides.( i have been married for 18 years now.)
2007-04-01 04:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bit lengthy... you need to love someone with all your heart to know what love is...remember love is all about giving, when you are in love you start feeling possessive about that person, you look forward to be in that person's company, when you 2 start talking on the phone, you forget when the night turns into morning, you visualize the person everywhere around, when you are in love you love the person as a whole and not the persons habits, you do not try find your ideal in that person but that person becomes your ideal,
take your time, this is the most important milestone in your life, speak to your dad and make him understand, i hope age is on your side, but do not wait tooooo long to decide, get to know the person's friend circle, his daily routine, his activities in spare time, every one has a past, you two are coming to together to spent your future, so try your best to ignore the past, he may have had an affair, may be you as well, leave the negative vibes behind and try to put your best foot forward, important thing is TALK, if you have any concerns spill it out, be diplomatic in your approach so as to make sure you do not hurt that person's feeling, do things what you will expect out of the person you are dealing with and finally if you believe in GOD leave the rest up to HIM.
LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL, but always have an open mind to see its beauty, eyes do not see the truth always......
2007-03-28 04:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Salil Baig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r asked to talk to him, don't be in a fix. your talks with him shud go as if he is known to u. You might be having the picture of your choice in your head as all other boys and girls have. Without letting him know your requirements, u try to find out what he has for u. Be careful the talks shud proceed in a normal atmosphere without any pressure on mind or without any sort of shyness. within a short duration u will succeed to know whether he is suitable for u or not. convey this plainly to your parents.
2007-03-28 04:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi don't worry it's hap-pen's in every body life , no body can give correct idea about other person first u talk to the person and know him ways of ideas& and lot more becoz we girls r not having any other option after contionus meeting u will beter know about the person
all the best
2007-03-28 05:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First U talk normal, then wait & C...what his aproach..
I hope..later he shall be in touch with u...
Most of the times u try to talk less in smooth way & observe him more in way of talking, body language etc.
After meeting or talking with him for 5 to 6 times...then u tell him about your likes & dislikes and ask him for the same.
After that u come to one conclusion & dis cuss with your firends.
2007-03-28 04:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by swaagat143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't find true love... it will come looking for you...love isn't forced...
Love isn't all about the giddy feeling, the tingling you feel when he kisses your lips... its a developing feeling...
It's true love when you wake up early in the morning and you find your partner having a flu and looking like **** and you still think that they're the most beautiful creatures on earth. It is true love when after all the bad habits she/he has, you still stick with her/him...
2007-03-28 04:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by genoveva d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read bio-data completely, carefully. Have trust in father. If he is good in health, education, income etc. you can proceed. You can ask your friends etc. to enquire more about guy.
(My daughers (married, bacehlor) have no trust in me.)
2007-03-28 04:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋