If he doesn't care about her and he always give her different excuses and reasons for not being with her or staying out late, why it should be considered cheating, if she met someone else who can provide her with those things she can't have with her husband?
2007-03-27 21:26:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is still cheating. Look I have the same problems with my husband that you say you have with yours. Even if I think he has given me reasons. If I go and find myself a lover it is still cheating. There are men who cheat and blame the wife. That if she did this or that. That if she wasn't so BIT... For whatever reason if you are married. And are with someone else it is cheating.
2007-03-27 21:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
needs are called needs for a reason, it's cause people NEED them. Nobody should run around dedicating their life to someone or something that is unsatisfying to the basic needs that you have, especially not for the sake of love. Love is about being happy, not miserable. Stand up to your hubby and demand your needs and if he refuses go get them met somewhere else and seriusly consider dumping his sorry ***, when you sign on to a lifelong relationship you commit to meeting your partner's needs, or at least allowing for that person to get their needs elsewhere, if you can't or won't make that commitment then don't. Maybe it is cheating, but it's definately cheating if your husband is expecting you to just sit there and be happy without any kind of effort made on his behalf.
2007-03-27 22:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in the bible it is even considered cheating to even look at somebody else who attracts you.
The problem with couples these days is that they go into marriage thinking that they could always file for divorce.
Marriage is sacred. If you enter into it, you should make sure that whatever your husband or your wife does, you could try to make things work out.
Don't correct a mistake by another mistake. Don't try to justify a what you did or about to do by citing what your husband did or is trying to do.
That is the first step to destroying a marriage.
2007-03-27 21:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by genoveva d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is something people do when they are in a marriage or relationship. If you're not in one or the other, then it's not cheating. It's pretty clear.
You need to break it off with a person before you sleep with someone else.
Be an adult. Don't go sleeping around and not tell him just because you're mad.
2007-03-27 21:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it make a difference if the genders were swapped, and it was the man that met someone else because his wife was not giving him attention?
Bad marriage is a bad marriage, but cheating only makes it worse AND unfixable.
2007-03-27 21:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wl be considered cheating since u hv not informed ur hubby abt it. u r cheating his trust and faith in u. u shd instead sort out the prob. with him and try to solve it. if u feel u r being neglected or he is avoiding u, u shd say th. to him. But if u hv found another person, whom u love now, and u r not interested in ur hubby, then u shd tell it frankly to ur hubby and face the consequences. but if u dont dare to do th. then it wl be called cheating. no matter, how faithful u act before him, when he finds it out, it wl be a cheating on him.
Even if he does not know abt. it then ur guilt itself wl tell u th. u r cheating on him. if u did not have th. guilt, u wd not have asked this question at all.
2007-03-27 22:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It still is cheating, you are just trying to blame your husband because it makes you feel better. He may have contributed to it, but you are the one who sought out some other man and got close enough to him to take off all your clothes and have sexual intercourse with him. I'm sure your husband helped you with that part, too, huh? Take responsibility for your actions.
2007-03-27 22:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is still considered cheating because she has a husband and is married. If she is having problems in her marriage, then she needs to discuss them openly with her husband and try to fix them. If she wants to date, then she needs to get a divorce.
2007-03-27 21:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by rascal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your new lover is so great, dump your husband and follow him. But who can assure he will be as great as he is now for the next 10 years and even more? Talk to your husband, tell him you feel alone in this marriage, that you want to work it out, otherwise you'll file for divorce.
2007-03-27 23:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is staying out late and not paying attention to you then he is cheating on you get a divorce and move on with his money and your life
2007-03-27 21:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋