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I have a birth defect called Spina Bifida and it seems that once you feel ok with telling a prospective partner they run a mile...anyone had that happen to them?

2007-03-27 21:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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No, I can't say that I have but if a person did that to me, I would feel sad at first and then feel glad that they left because I wouldn't want to date a jerk like that anyway. A real man or woman would stay and want to get to know the real me. Try to think of this as a blessing because now you have a way of weeding out the a**holes from the truly kind people who are worth your time.

2007-03-27 21:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by rascal 2 · 1 0

I've met and married two different men while confined to a wheelchair.

I know a woman born without arms or legs who is happily married, too, AND runs a successful business. ( http://www.2beadornot2bead.com/index.asp?PageAction=COMPANY )

The key is in finding men (or women) who aren't hung up on the stupid stuff. There are a lot of people out there who are really good at looking past the chair or the disability and seeing the human being.

I hope you find some of those people. :)

2007-03-28 04:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by j3nny3lf 5 · 1 0

I was born short ugly and stupid but I still found someone to love me with all those defects and I had smelly feet too. If yo are up front with them and they run away they were not worth your time, your special in Gods eyes always remember that.

2007-03-28 04:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Right 6 · 2 0

no... im not someone with a physical disability though i would definatly date someone with one... i actually was like in love with this sexyyyyyy man that had to use a cain.. and culdent stand up for to long.. he was so hot!!. though.. and had the best personality.. and no he wasent old.lol.. but such a cutie!!.. i think true love is always out there for anyone.. and everyone.. if you find that person he woulnt leave you for a physical disability.. ..

Good luck!! and take care.. you will find the right one.. no matter what!! trust me!

2007-03-28 04:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by BuTtErFlY 2 · 2 0

Maybe you should try waiting longer before you tell them. The thought of dating someone with a disability is very intimidating to a lot of people, especially if they don't understand the specific defect. Do you just drop it on them, or do you explain how it affects you. It could be how you tell them. I was born with bilateral club foot, which affects my heart in addition to my feet. It's definitely not something I bring up early in a relationship.

2007-03-28 04:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0 4

I will consider dating a physical disability person , if she is a nice person

2007-03-28 04:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1 0

i would have no problem dating someone with a disability

im sorry you get treated like that but it is not you they are running away from its something they are missing inside of them that they are running away from

2007-03-28 05:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0 0

I'm sorry to hear that but guess it takes a person with lots of patient to be able to stand by you.

2007-03-28 04:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1 0

Not to me personally owever, it shows the character of the person and count your blessings that they did not stick around.

2007-03-28 05:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0 0

Its love babe. If love comes in then nothing can go away. I will love my man no matter what. Its love what matters. Pray to Jesus and leave it to him to get you a nice man

2007-03-28 05:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0 0

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