with us at home, how do I get rid of them?
2007-03-27 21:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by wrightvr 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow that seems a little bit cold that you just want to get rid of them like that. You should encourage them to find there way in the world by seeing that they either land a job or they go to school to get a degree. I have two children under 14 years of age and i want them to feel that they can lean on me anytime they need to. Its hard to make it on your own in this world so maybe give them a hint and help them as much as you can, these kids are your responsibility.
2007-03-27 21:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 22 23 You say. Talk to her tell her they are all adults it's time for them to go on their own. Don't be mean about it. Remember they are her children. Don't force her to choose you might end up losing. Have her tell them. If you do it. It's just going to make them want to stay. If only for the simple reason, of not doing it. Because they feel that as her children they have more rights then you. And it came from you.
2007-03-28 04:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hummmm. Move Out??
Or Show them Nice flats And So On In News Papers
Or Build A Flat In The Back Yard?
2007-03-28 04:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Peeti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why in the world are they still living at home? i had my own place at 19! if you want to get rid of them, help them find jobs that pay decent so that they can survive out on their own if they don't have jobs already. all three of them can live together and support each other. are they mooching off of you? if it's bothering you this much, perhaps you should have a talk with your gf and explain how you feel. they have to learn responsibility. i understand that she might not want to let her kids go, but for her to not urge them to get out and have their own lives is a bit wrong. it's like she's suppressing them.
2007-03-28 05:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by mllesassypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. The way the economy is going it may not be possible for them to move out on their own.
Could you suggest that they start paying rent? It may make them so mad that they will go ahead and move out.
2007-03-28 04:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by lyllyan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can't.....she can...... while you were playing that role as a daddy you should have been one....first you fell short by not being married to this lady...which release you from any say so with her kids and how long they live at home.....It's funny to me that she isn't good enough to marry but she good enough for you to say where her kids should be living...you didn't prepare them to get out prepared them to want to get out and be on their own....You didn't do that..so now you have to live with your short comings.....boy you are selfish......grow up be man and talk to your girlfriend about her kids and do what she tell you....after all it is not your house or kids....so sit back and follow instructions........because it's obvious that you don't know how to be a man.........
2007-03-28 04:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by cilverpenni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start touching them, pinching their bottoms, walking in on them in the shower, walk around the house with nothing but a towel on, then bend over and let the towel fall off in front of them, they will be so grossed out they will leave
2007-03-28 04:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
charge them rent and set rules to let them know its not a hotel
2007-03-28 04:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
time for you to move out!
they are her kids.
2007-03-28 04:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by john john 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her to tell them to leave...or do it yourself.
2007-03-28 04:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋