he said he will be comfortable if he sex with me
2007-03-27 20:21:18 · 10 answers · asked by Ipis 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you're not sure (and have to ask this forum) then the answer is definitely no. You should only have sex when you are ready, are part of a loving, committed relationship and are using a sensible form of birth control. Don't cave in to pressure because he is suggesting that it's the correct next step.
Take care.
2007-03-27 20:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by britishchippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only agree if you want to, dont do this for him because trust me you will regret it, also don't do this is you don't feel you are ready for the responsibilities that come with it, such as no birthcontrol method is 100% effective except not having sex, so if you have sex you could end up pregnant, is having a child something you are ready for? if not then you aren't ready for sex, also is this something you can discuss with your parents, because if you are mature enough to have sex you should be mature enough to have this conversation with your parents rather than some people you don't know on the internet. Also, be positive that your boyfriend will not leave you when you have sex with him, that it isn't all that he wants, because "comfortable" isn't loving and may not be a good reason, and do not do it because you feel pressured into it, or because everyone else, or to satisfy him, like I said before and I can't stress this enough only do it if you truly want to and feel truly ready for sex and all that comes with it. And I think if you were ready you wouldn't be asking us online. Goodluck with whatever you decide and if you decide on sex make sure to be safe, and I'd recommend making sure he's clean and tested, and especially if he isn't a virgin, you having a PAP test afterwards, just to be safe.
2007-03-27 20:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by encientebelle5552 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? and how many years have you been with this guy. having sex with someone is always one's prerogative but think about this, do you feel comfortable enough to have sex with him? Are you aware of the outcomes that may arise from having sex with him? Having sex is a responsibility, are you willing to take on that responsibility. Besides if he says that having sex will make him comfortable with you, then he probably is just using you to have free sex. He doesn't really care about you or how you feel. His brain is probably down there.
2007-03-27 21:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by genoveva d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh so he is not comfortable being with you for the person u r , but by having sex with you. Besides sex with u is not there to make him comfortable. U should tell him off. Don't fall into his web. He has some nerve.
2007-03-27 20:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by zama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you know about birth control?
I think sex with him is no good because he should be romantic and not just say "comfortable" that is not good and it says you are not his heart throb.
No sex with this bad man.
2007-03-27 20:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not comfortable with you without having sex then he doesn't really care about you.
2007-03-27 20:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by ensnentill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sex is not comfortable for you then its going to make the both of you very aukward with each other... suggest you do it when you are really ready... dont get presurred into sex just to please ya bf
2007-03-27 20:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sheetal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. My good friend has a baby and he wore a condom (it broke). Also, a number of my friends have contracted STD's, particularly herpes. It lasts forever. If you do decide to do it, go get the boy checked out.
2007-03-30 15:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont agree to do dear.sex is only after marriage.dont spoil ur life ..
2007-03-27 20:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by nisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, dont do it, he wont respect you, he doesnt love you or he wouldnt even ask, thats for marriage.
2007-03-27 20:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋