your wife told you that this guy was one of her best sexual experience.
2007-03-27 19:54:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... if you'd had sex with other ladies before your wife, then the circle is complete.
Other ladies might be commenting your sexual strength with their husband too.
The sun will still rise tomorrow.
2007-03-27 21:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hemen 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe your wife has broken one of the most important rules in the unwritten rule book for great women... never say to your current partner who your best sexual experience was... unless it's your partner. Although I'm sure she didnt mean to intimidate you when she mentioned this, it was a pretty careless move on her part. Don't take it personally... if she is with you now then that's all that matters. And that my friend is what is going to be your weapon when you meet this guy. Also, he probably doesnt know that your wife thinks this about him so he's probably a lot more worried about meeting you.
2007-03-27 20:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by itsSCIENCE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you meet him, act cool. Act like that doesn't bother you at all. Even when your wife told he is her best sexual exp. Maybe she only talks spontaneously to you, as if she's talking to her friend, because she feel comfortable & secured with you. Be grateful for that. Whatever happened in the past, she's yours now.
Play the game with your wife: ask her why did she want a guy who doesn't has sexual skill as her ex. And, act mad by playing your "penis embargo" or "kiss boycott" cards; give her a lot of attentions & care but no sex & kiss at all. Remember, this is just a game. Don't get too serious with these. Because this can potentially lure her to go back to her ex, just for sex. Be playfull.
If she realise her mistake, "punish" her with "all night sex" & "all body kisses".
2007-03-27 21:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have put in the effort to figure out how to truly please your wife in bed, then that guy has nothing on you. The best sex is from really knowing what pleases your partner and getting enough practice to really rock her world enough that any guy from the past is irrelevant.
If you have already gotten to that point, know that he is nothing compared to you.
If you haven't gotten there yet, know that you can and will do her well enough that he will be nothing at all compared to you.
Either way, you have it made, not him.
Congrats on a good marriage if that is the most pressing issue you're confronting!
2007-03-27 20:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for tips...
If she's good in bed, thank him for losing her so you could have her...
Offer to let him watch...
Honestly, get over it.
He and she obviously were mismatched somehow or they wouldn't be apart. You must be doing something right if you still have her and, if sex is that important to her, she obviously prefers you as an overall package, right?
Other than the opportunity to gain insight on why she thought he was good, there's nothing really to gain from interacting with or dealing with the guy.
2007-03-27 20:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, you have her by your side. That's the most important thing to you now. Do not feel anyhting untoward about the past life of your wife. In the first place when you married her, its not because of sex but of what she is a person.
Move on mate.
2007-03-27 20:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you meeting this guy again? I would just be myself if I was you, she obviously married you for reasons beyond just bedroom performance.
Lots of guys had sex with your wife before you, and when you have a little girl with your wife, lots of boys/and older men are going to have sex with her too, its just the way the cookie crumbles, accept it.
2007-03-27 19:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously u are not considering to ask him how he did it?
She's all to you now and all that matters, although u do feel abit awkward. You shld be worried if she's geting too close to him. Dont let your pride get in the way, just be yourself. It could be that your wife is hinting that you are "lacking" in the bedroom department.
2007-03-27 20:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by igck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-24 18:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks man! This scenario is all too common as women these days will give their lady parts to anybody thy bump into.
Just have her meet one of your ex'es see how she reacts.
She's a prick for even putting you in this situation and telling you that kind of crap about him.
2007-03-27 20:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋